The majority of textiles are under the impression, that because naturist/nudist men do not immediatly get arroused and have a raging erection at the sight of a nude female, we are sexless drones!! This couldn't be further from the truth, it is wrong and completely false!! We are just as sexual as the rest of society, perhaps even more so because we immediatly see what we like, what turns us on and gets us excited but unlike textiles, instead of being disappointed in our partner's appearance when we see them undressed for the first time, we know when it is appropriate to have sex (either outercourse or entercourse), at the right time, in the right place, in the right environment, in the right circumstances, with the right partner or partners, etc.!!!
The majority of textiles are under the impression, that because naturist/nudist men do not immediatly get arroused and have a raging erection at the sight of a nude female, we are sexless drones!! This couldn't be further from the truth, it is completely untrue and false!! We are just as sexual as the rest of society, perhaps even more so because we see immediatly what we like, what turns us on and gets us excited but unlike textiles, instead of being disappointed in our partner's appearance when we see them undressed for the first time, we know when it is appropriate to have sex (outercourse or entercourse), at the right time, in the right place, in the right environment, in the right circumstances, with the right partner or partners, etc.!!!
The majority of textiles are under the impression, that because naturist/nudist men do not immediatly get arroused and have a raging erection at the sight of a nude female, we are sexless drones!! This couldn't be further from the truth, it is completely wrong and false!! We are just as sexual as the rest of society, perhaps even more so because we see immediatly what we like, what turns us on and gets us excited but unlike textiles, instead of being disappointed in our partner's appearance when we see them undressed for the first time, we know when it is appropriate to have sex (outercourse and entercourse), at the right time, in the right place, in the right environment, in the right circumstances, with the right partner or partners, etc.!!!
The US continues to lose nudist beaches venues and I believe Australia has lost two nude beaches this year. Partly because anti nudism groups can use the behavior of a minority of men to blanket associate sexual behavior with all genuine nudists.I wonder wether its an Australian thing
I agree with you and believe a few are messing it up for the majority. My concern is if the majority are speaking out and calling the few out on their bad behaviors. When those of us acting appropriately see someone misbehaving, are we stepping up and calling them out? I may be wrong, but I imagine some people have mixed feelings when they see bad actions. They know that the action is wrong, but they also secretly enjoy it. Therefore, they are silent! I also know many people are fearful of violence, but if we want to continue to enjoy our freedoms, we must come against the wrongdoers! There should be a few "good" people in the midst who can gather together and approach the wrongdoer and tell him or her that their actions are not acceptable. If they refuse to stop or leave, call law enforcement. Now I know we don't normally want any law enforcement in our nudist areas. However, if we step up and involve them, it can also send a message throughout the community that we have standards and will not tolerate bad behaviors. Let some of these perverts catch a charge and have to register as a sex offender (which is what they are) and they may get the message!
The majority of textiles are under the impression, that because naturist/nudist men do not immediatly get arroused and have a raging erection at the sight of a nude female, we are sexless drones!! This couldn't be further from the truth, it is completely wrong and false!! We are just as sexual as the rest of society, perhaps even more so because we see immediately what we like, what turns us on and gets us excited but unlike textiles, instead of being disappointed in our partner's appearance when we see them undressed for the first time, we know when it is appropriate to have sex (outercourse and entercourse), at the right time, in the right place, in the right environment, in the right circumstances, with the right partner or partners, etc.!!!
One of my friends suffers from major erectile deficiency. One day he said something that made me burst out in laughter. He said that while at a nudist location, he could be just as horny and turned on as possible, but no one would ever know because his penis would remain flaccid. The male body (like the female body) is unique and operates in ways we sometimes don't desire. All males with erections are not sexually excited and all males with flaccid penises are not sexually dead!!! We must learn not to give the appearance of wrongdoing! Based on my knowledge, if you get erect, don't flaunt it, and definitely don't rub on it.
Separating social nudity from sexual nudity
How does one actually achieve the above?
In the time we all live we've all grown up from youth in clothes. Here in the UK the Government made it law as far back as 1942 that everyone must wear clothes. Now generations have grown up in clothes and all my life I've seen couples changing partners and going about their lives doing as they please, no marriage just their own loose conduct, but its okay because millions do that sort of thing and its normal, but being naked especially if or where someone can see you either in or outside your home and then people say you are indecent? Who has the damn right to say that anybody in the nude is indecent! We're all created the same, male and female, and once your used to being around people naked, there really is no sexuality. Its just another experience that people don't have because its been taken away from them, so they think the human body is for sexual gratification only and must be falsely covered over at all other times, and if anyone see's you, heaven forbid, your indecent.
If someone sees you naked its not the fault of god or the witness. Its always entirely the fault of the naked person.
The naked person has no control over how the witness will react regardless of that naked persons intention is. There is no argument here, being naked in a place where nudity is not accepted is not a social norm.
Nudists know this thats why nudist spaces like resorts, clubs and beaches exist.
Every time I read a post saying something like my neighbour is totally fine with my being naked in my garden. she even invited me over for coffee I tend to think that person is living in a fantasy world rather than this one.
Those people who whine about being considered indecent when the are naked in places where it is socially inappropriate should all get together and form their own society where they can be naked anywhere anytime and do anything.
Otherwise come back to the real world and recognize that whine does nothing flaunting social norms is harmful and supporting genuine non exhibitionist nudism is the best way to preserve dwindling social nudism spaces.
Separating social nudity from sexual nudityHow does one actually achieve the above?In the time we all live we've all grown up from youth in clothes. Here in the UK the Government made it law as far back as 1942 that everyone must wear clothes. Now generations have grown up in clothes and all my life I've seen couples changing partners and going about their lives doing as they please, no marriage just their own loose conduct, but its okay because millions do that sort of thing and its normal, but being naked especially if or where someone can see you either in or outside your home and then people say you are indecent? Who has the damn right to say that anybody in the nude is indecent! We're all created the same, male and female, and once your used to being around people naked, there really is no sexuality. Its just another experience that people don't have because its been taken away from them, so they think the human body is for sexual gratification only and must be falsely covered over at all other times, and if anyone see's you, heaven forbid, your indecent.
I have read elsewhere that simple nudity in public is legal in the UK. but often not socially acceptable.