Another one is gone
With all the mud throwing that's been going on here lately, who can blame them?
Who can blame them? Friend.. they are the ones throwing the mud. I don't want to see anyone kicked but it is in the style of that type person to throw a tantrum when they get fronted about their behavior. No worries.. he'll be back when he thinks he can take control over or has decided it's time to act as a grown up.
I intentionally stayed out of a few posts because I don't think it's productive to insult people.. nor do I think it productive to lose opinions that are beneficial.. But.. to think they left because of all the bullies here beating them up is ridiculous. This is basically a temper tantrum because a few people got tired of the insults and ill tempers.. My issue with those guys is their intolerance towards those who do not live as they do yet the hatred from them towards people who do not accept their lifestyle that is outside the norm a bit. I don't want to see this site become a pick-up site but for people to mention their proclivites is not a bad thing on a site that asks you to fill out a profile. The issue is these guys would then peruse that profile looking for dirt believing that would somehow make the opinion of that person... illegitmate. That is the stuff that has to stop. I welcome their opinions on matters relevent to the topic.. but when someone says hello that is NOT an invitation to degrade them for being gay or a 'poly-couple'.. which i admit..is a new one.. I hadn't heard of that one but hey.. so goes life.
The best lesson is this: After writing a post, read it out loud to someone you love. (Imaginary friends qualify for this exercise.) If you see that person wince, come to tears, become red with anger or otherwise negatively affected by what you read, you may need to rethink what you wrote before posting it.
Tom T: I have a secure copy of the list that is recent. Let me see where we are and I will restore the list as best I can. Never thought about the "holes" being left if someone leaves. Little did I know that my "offsite" backup would come in handy. Thanks for pointing this out.
give me a break. some people think because you are a nudist you are supposed to lose all opinions aploogize for everything that mite make someone mad, and lose all of your personality and personal beliefs you had before you were a nudist. i think stating your feelings, arguing etc. can be fun. if you dont like that kitchen heat as they say.... oh by the way i am a nudist and still like womens boobs and like to look at them. another subject i could talk about for hours.
Careful! Every "True" nudist knows that once you get naked you become an asexual automaton! LOL Some people are far too thin skinned around here, it's true. And I really never noticed Nakedspark being all that inflammatory, not nearly as much as certain nudists from MA! ;-)
i am a nudist and still like womens boobs and like to look at them. another subject i could talk about for hours.
Yes, boobs are great, but as a nudist you must seperate social nudity (even on the internet) from sexual nudity. When I am nude for nudisms sake, I do not look at my wife sexually, but when I am nude for sexy time, I do look at my wife sexually. The point is, there is a difference. I don't surf the profiles on this board to look at sexy girls. I surf to be with like minded people (however few we are)
My sympathies to the missus.