Out of my league
I don't know why maybe watching too much porn - but now in my early 60s, I find that I have an attraction for men way out of my league. Now before guys say that looks, cock size, build, muscles, age don't matter - just stop - I admit that there are some attractive guys that like older guys with Dad bods ( to be polite) or worse, but they are very uncommon. I have an attraction for a sexy, ( age not that much of an issue), muscular body, with meaty pecs -well developed- meaty butt, and a long and thick schlong. Yeah, I know -- don't ask for much. I also expect someone willing to be interested in me and my pleasure, not just using me for his. If I was reading this about someone else. i would say take some time to get real about and accept the shape you're in, and make some choices about changing or not changing that. Then work on accepting what comes your way.
Any other advice?