Interesting that this topic got to page 5.
Not really; it's just a sign of how popular exhibitionism in nudism is. Maybe it would be interesting to have a second part: As a nudist, what was your most erotic, exciting, or daring exhibitionist moment?
There is a "voyeurexhibitionist" spectrum. Are you more of an exhibitionist or a voyeur? I don't believe this is a bell curve. I'm guessing in the general population in the US, most men are 70:30. On TN, that number is likely to be very different.
My story is not common. It was in later middle age that I discovered foreskin restoration. To that point, I was closer to 10:90, or a 1 on your scale. But joining an online group of restoring men meant that it was appropriate to share my progress pictures as my foreskin grew. The inferiority complex instilled in me since I was an infant was mostly dealt with by the various successes I've reached in life. But inferiority carried over into my body image which was not addressed. I was damaged goods. Defective. It was extremely embarrassing the first time I posted progress pictures to the restorers group. To my shock and amazement, the feedback was positive. Both gay and straight men offered compliments. I was blown away. It was a revelation to learn that my body was not offensive to look at. Not only my manbits, but my flat chest was irrelevant to my net worth, and even pleasing to look at by some estimation. Subsequently I joined a gym to address some of my other body liabilities. In the locker room I found unconditional acceptance irrespective of the shape of my body.
The net result is that I gain great affirmation in social nude situations. I am accepted and appreciated for both who and what I am. It is very healing. On the voyeurexhibition spectrum I am solidly 20:80. I don't fit well on your 1-10 scale. I don't get aroused by social nudity. I'm more likely to use nudist imagery to enhance arousal. I have brought various crowds of imaginary people to watch me during sex with my wife.
I call myself a consensual exhibitionist. I have no desire to shock, embarrass, or disturb anyone with my nudity. But if someone wants to see me nude, I peel fast.
Ok, in front of a dilemma I asked ChatGpt. S/he is smart and always right, right? Right? The dilemma is: my logic and personal experience seem to indicate that most men are both voyeurs and exhibitionists, but voyeurism is dominant. It makes sense for all evolutionary reasons I mentioned many times. Your winning sexual strategy was to impregnate as many of us fertile ladies as possible so the only (or far predominant) trigger was the display of our sexual fitness. So you guys like sexy girls and that is all (or most of) what you like. There is far less evolutionist advantage in your showing us your attributes than in seeing ours.
So yes, ChatGPT acknowledges that men are more of both that women and more voyeurs than exhibitionists. See reply below.
But then I asked the same question about NUDIST men. And you know what? Nudist men are neither voyeurs nor exhibitionists, nudism has nothing to do with sex but with freedom and equality.
Yeah, right.
So its answer to the first question is pasted below. As for the answer to this question I have closed the window so why don't you go ahead and ask yourself the same question, I'm not your personal assistant.
ChatGPT, answer to the first question:
The question of whether men are more voyeuristic or exhibitionistic isn't easily answered, as both voyeurism and exhibitionism are complex behaviors influenced by a variety of factors, including biology, psychology, social conditioning, and personal experiences. However, studies in psychology and sexual behavior often suggest that:
Voyeurism tends to be more common in men than in women. This is linked to the idea that some men may have a stronger interest in observing others for sexual gratification, a behavior which has roots in power dynamics, curiosity, and visual sexual stimuli. The visual nature of male sexuality might play a role here, with many men being drawn to the act of watching others in intimate or sexual situations.
Exhibitionism, on the other hand, is also more commonly reported in men, though it tends to be less prevalent than voyeurism. Exhibitionism involves exposing one's body or sexual acts to others for pleasure. The motivation behind this can vary, but it often ties into desires for attention, power, or the thrill of breaking social norms.
So, to generalize, men tend to engage more frequently in both voyeuristic and exhibitionistic behaviors, but voyeurism might be more common overall. That said, these tendencies are not universal and can vary widely from person to person.
Ok, in front of a dilemma I asked ChatGpt. S/he is smart and always right, right? Right? The dilemma is: my logic and personal experience seem to indicate that most men are both voyeurs and exhibitionists, but voyeurism is dominant. It makes sense for all evolutionary reasons I mentioned many times. Your winning sexual strategy was to impregnate as many of us fertile ladies as possible so the only (or far predominant) trigger was the display of our sexual fitness. So you guys like sexy girls and that is all (or most of) what you like. There is far less evolutionist advantage in your showing us your attributes than in seeing ours.So yes, ChatGPT acknowledges that men are more of both that women and more voyeurs than exhibitionists. See reply below.But then I asked the same question about NUDIST men. And you know what? Nudist men are neither voyeurs nor exhibitionists, nudism has nothing to do with sex but with freedom and equality.Yeah, right.So its answer to the first question is pasted below. As for the answer to this question I have closed the window so why don't you go ahead and ask yourself the same question, I'm not your personal assistant.ChatGPT, answer to the first question:The question of whether men are more voyeuristic or exhibitionistic isn't easily answered, as both voyeurism and exhibitionism are complex behaviors influenced by a variety of factors, including biology, psychology, social conditioning, and personal experiences. However, studies in psychology and sexual behavior often suggest that:Voyeurism tends to be more common in men than in women. This is linked to the idea that some men may have a stronger interest in observing others for sexual gratification, a behavior which has roots in power dynamics, curiosity, and visual sexual stimuli. The visual nature of male sexuality might play a role here, with many men being drawn to the act of watching others in intimate or sexual situations.Exhibitionism, on the other hand, is also more commonly reported in men, though it tends to be less prevalent than voyeurism. Exhibitionism involves exposing one's body or sexual acts to others for pleasure. The motivation behind this can vary, but it often ties into desires for attention, power, or the thrill of breaking social norms.So, to generalize, men tend to engage more frequently in both voyeuristic and exhibitionistic behaviors, but voyeurism might be more common overall. That said, these tendencies are not universal and can vary widely from person to person.
Very interesting, great topic and insight
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