Going naked at your friend's house - do you?
Sorry if this is a little long - but want to convey it accurately.
My best friend here (very handsome man, a little younger)- we've been friends for many many years - due to change in circumstances we now spend much more time together the last couple of yrs - both at his home and mine. We've seen each other naked many times over the years - no issue at all. He knows I live NAKED all the time. I also know he's very comfortable with it. But in years past we have not gone naked when visiting / dinner.
A year ago or so given I'm at his home much more often - I truly began to feel constrained and uncomfortable - actually bowed out coming over - which gave me mixed feelings. We're very close and I love him very much.
One afternoon at his house - I just said "do you mind if I take my clothes off and get naked - you know I'm always naked?" His response was - "of course it's fine". I got naked - he stayed dressed for the afternoon and evening. It was f-ng great - so incredibly better for me. So it only took a few times for me coming over and getting naked - that he joined me and got naked.
From that day - I walk in his door - strip naked and stay naked - just as I do at home. He always gets naked too. This includes going naked at home a great deal more than he did previously.
This has made us both MUCH closer and comfortable with each other - able to discuss intimate things some of which we did not bring up before. This is an example of a very happy coming together for us due to just being my naked self - and him. Hope you enjoyed this. Nakedman
Good to hear that you have opened up more to each other.
The wife told her friends that I was naked most of the time and if it was okay for me to stay naked. They were okay with that and it is one of my more favorite things to be. Like the only one naked in a group ! Yeah !
But what is even better are naked hugs with each other. The power from men hugging is amazing !
Having nudist friends is so different than your textile friends. Besides the obvious, open, honest deep conversations and sharing are at the top of the list. When we ask close textile friends how things are going, they all respond, "great! Everything is great!" No problems, issues, worries, concerns, fears. It's all very surface and it's usually all fake.
In contrast, when we visit with our nudist friends and very soon after we've greeted, usually clothed, we all get "comfortable." That is our signal that they are going to take their clothes off and we are welcome to join and vice versa. Occasionally, we will greet each other nude but that's another story. After the pleasantries are over and we begin catching up, our nudist friends immediately open up as do we. Life isn't easy, it isn't without its ups and downs, as our textile friends would have you believe their lives are. Nudist friends are much more honest and open.
With regard to being naked at friend's homes, if they are nudists, we are always naked in their home, and they are naked here at our home. Textile friends, IF we stay overnight, we are only nude in our room and at night while we sleep. If they know about our nudist life and tell us we can be naked, I would be, but my wife would not. I don't mind being the only one naked. But most times, if we are visiting textile friends out of town, we get a hotel room.
I have several close male friends that are not nudists but since we worked together at the fire house, they are well aware of our nudist life. When we are out camping, I'm usually dressed until we retire for the night. I talk openly and honestly around the campfire and a couple of the close fire buddies have agreed, one time or another, to visit some hot springs and camp nude and use the hot springs nude. Instantly, these guys have opened up about their lives, their worries, concerns, their families. It transforms from idle, less meaningful conversations to deeper feelings, philosophies, opinions and they are much more open to opposing views. Nudity is the greatest equalizer.
I've already shared in another group about an amazing friend who recently passed away, leaving behind many years of cherished friendship. He was a textile friend who never judged or criticized my choice of lifestyle. We bonded on many levels as both individuals and friends, despite the significant difference: he was a textile, and I am a nudist. We often spent time together enjoying meals and engaging in long conversations at my place, with him clothed while I remained dressed as usual. I vividly recall the first time I visited his home.
He resided on a quite isolated property where my nudity wouldn't be questioned or judged. When I received my initial invitation to his place, my friend assured me that his home was a completely safe space for being nude. He mentioned that I could even leave my clothes in the car upon arrival. I think I jokingly replied, something like, "Well, don't tempt me," but we both knew that I was likely going to be nude.
Driving to my friend's house, I felt joyful knowing he embraced my lifestyle. There was no pressure for him to join me in nudity. Once I parked in his driveway, which felt like the ideal spot to be unclothed, I quickly discarded my clothes, leaving them behind. My friend welcomed me with a screen door between us, wearing his comfy attire of sweatpants and a t-shirt. As he opened the door and gave me a friendly hug, I instantly felt comfortable around him.
Once we were seated on the couch in his living room, our conversation unfolded naturally, just like it always did. We chatted about everything from our top TV shows and music to our families and childhood recollections. It made no difference to him that I was entirely nude or to me that he was dressed. The vibe between us was relaxed and accepting.
I was invited for dinner, and as the sun began to set, we realized it was time to start the grill. He stepped out onto the deck to get everything ready for our meal. I followed him outside to admire the sunset. Being naked outdoors made me feel deeply connected to nature. Standing beside my friend on the deck and gazing at the horizon, I felt a sense of peace and gratitude for his friendship. Not to mention, I spent a lot of time on that deck naked catching the sun rays!
I miss my friend, but I'm grateful for the acceptance and companionship he offered me. Our friendship lasted for many years, with me being nude and him clothed in both our homes.
Thanks for these stories. I have a couple of male textile friends who are OK with my being nude in specific situations when they're clothed (eg beach and other outdoor locations, sharing a hotel room, etc). I have a new appreciation for them and this situation. Always good to be grateful, that comes through in this thread so well.
Always sorry to learn of the death of someone's good friend. Best wishes to all when handling loss.
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