in all likelihood, a simply no thank you, would have sufficed.Toes will sometimes touch accidentally in a jacuzzi. I should have left as soon as his foot was far enough up my leg that I realized what he was doing.I wonder how much a simple no would have affected someone who had the nerve to invite me to his room.
What you describe is not that far off from what often happens at the mens resort. Touching your foot and leg under the water is rather discreet. No one else saw it. If you had simply pulled away or just said, No thanks, in all likelihood, that would have been enough.
A non-negative response is a positive response - by doing nothing, you were saying yes. Getting out of the hot tub could be an invitation to follow. But instead of assuming thats what you meant, he asked for clarification.
What happened in the hot tub between James and I was somewhat different. We are not strangers. I knew James was just having a little playful fun - see if he could give me a boner. If I had stayed down in the water, no one would have known. But I had become well over heated and showing a boner there is no cause for concern.
Nudistpig;I googled "Steamworks in Toronto". It is gay bath house which allows public and private play and from the pictures and information, that play is sexual. Of course, if you go some place where men are having sex with each other, it is reasonable to expect to be gawked at and propostioned.In 2020 I had plans on doing the World Naked Bike Ride in Chicago and was going to visit Steamworks in Chicago and do a nude workout and get some pics and video taken. Of course like everything else Covid put an end to that plan. May do Chicago this summer or next and Hope to do Toronto in the next couple years.As far as being gawked at. My opinion of that has changed with age. When I was in my 20's and 30's Having some guy in his 50's or 60's gawking at me made me uncomfortable. Admittedly I was not anywhere near the exhibitionist I am now. Now that I am in my 60's having a 20-30 y/o guy gawking at me or really anyone for that matter makes me feel good. When I do my nude workouts sometime someone will be standing about 10' from me staring . I ended up doing a few extra sets just so he could watch.
If you are now in your 60's are you retired?
If so, has retimemnt given you the opportunity to incease your nude time and/or decrease you clothing supply?
It certainly did both for me.
If you are not retired, do your retirement plans include either or both of the above?
Working out without clothing is the best workout IMO because my skin can breathe as my heart rate increases. This is especially good in the summer time or if you tend to sweat a lot while exercising.
On a side note it is amazing how a thread about working out get turned into something sexual that has little or no connection to the OP
minimalist75;Your additional information helps me understand.However, when he started rubbing your feet, is it possible your lack of a response could have been misunderstood as consent?
Not sure, but in retrospect, not responding when he started moving his foot up my leg it probably could have been.
Here in Ft Lauderdale, probably about 17 years ago a local gym in cooperation with a gay men's naturist club held a nude workout night. I went and it was the first time I worked out nude and I loved it! The gym was co-ed, but for that night it was men only. They had a special guest, Falcon exclusive porn star Matthew Rush. Funny thing was, he remained clothed the entire time. Seemed very ironic that the guy that performs nude on film would not get naked at that event. Maybe it was a contractual thing with Falcon, or maybe he just did not get naked unless he was being paid well.The attached pic was from that event. OMG! back when I had tanlines!How did you contain a cock that big in as swimsuit as small as the tanline indicates?Do you spend enough time nude in the sun now that you don't have a noticeable tanline?The freedom must feel great!I have not had a tanline for over 8 years now. During the Covid lockdown The Club and Haulover were closed so no opportunities to tan nude. The only place I could go was our condo pool, but I would have to wear a swimsuit so I pretty much stayed out of the sun. I always wore the same swimsuit back then. A red Nike TerazSo you minimize your outdoor time where you can't be nude?How do you handle yardwork an other outdoor activities where you can't be nude?Do you own any swimsuits at this point if you don't want to wear any?
Yes I avoid the sun when i can't be nude. i live in a condo so don't do yard work.
I own tons of swimsuits. I use them for swimming/ hot tub and sauna at LA Fitness. Most of them have the liners cut out.
The men's resort I keep talking about is primarily peopled by gay men.minimalist75; Your additional information helps me understand.However, when he started rubbing your feet, is it possible your lack of a response could have been misunderstood as consent? Not sure, but in retrospect, not responding when he started moving his foot up my leg it probably could have been.
The behavior you describe is a typical first move. Start by touching lightly, "innocently," "accidentally," innocuously, and see what happens. If the guy pulls away or simply says, "No thanks," that ends it.
If there's no response, to the first touch, that's a green light to try a little more. Maybe the first touch really was "innocent" and "accidental." Make the next touch a bit more deliberate. Again, no response is a green light to continue.
If I remember correctly, you said he got halfway up your thigh before you got out of the hot tub.
Obviously, it was unintentional on your part. Nonetheless, your non-action was taken as assent. But even so, he didn't assume he'd read it correctly -- and asked for clarification.
By minimalist75:Wasn't it uncomfortable to cram your equipment into a small tight suit like that?I think it's the reverse. That fabric is under a lot of strain!Love it when the physiology shows through the fabric.
Actually the Nike Teraz was quite comfortable. They were a single layer unlined Polyester / Lycra suit that they made in the late 1990's. They were intended as a competition suit, but when wet, especially the red ones left nothing to the imagination. They fell out of favor because being so revealing the parents of the high school and college swimmers did not approve of their sons showing the goods so Nike discontinued them. Shortly after an entrepreneurial person (me) risked most of my savings after moving to Florida to buy Nike's entire remaining stock. I actually made a living selling them on ebay. I was strpped for cash at that time so I sold all of them. I wish i would have kept a few. I loved those suits and the looks I would get exiting the water.
I don't have many swim suits; none of them have liners.Most of them have the liners cut out.
The first thing I do with a swim suit or shorts (some shorts come with liners), is to cut the liner out.
The basketball shorts I bought had a liner -- why?
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