Social Nudity and being unhung
For those of you who enjoy Social Nudism/Naturism, what were your first experiences like? What was it the drew you to it and what was it like for you to overcome any fears related to your size? How long did it take for you to forget your size and just be comfortable in your body as its with others?
I grew up knowing I was a nudist but only privately. I wanted to be comfortable getting naked with and around my friends but was too embarrassed of my flaccid size to do so. Many times they stripped down to skinny dip and I made excuses to stay on the shore or just dip my feet in. Sure, the views were nice but I longed to have the confidence or rather a bigger dick to feel confident enough to skinny dip with them. Avoided group trips to the hot springs for the same reasons, went alone and at night so that the cover of darkness partially hid my size. Mind you I thoroughly enjoyed being naked once naked and UNSEEN in the springs and dark. But I always timed me getting in and out , and switching to different temp tubs when the odds of being seen were minimal. These fears were reinforced even more in me seeing how much larger the other men around were than me. Sure there are differences but I was always the smallest and. I longed to be larger and not stand out so much being so small comparatively.
It took me a few decades to mature enough and to developed enough confidence to just not give a shit what others may or may not think of me. I want to skinny dip, hike naked, go to the hot springs, sit around a campfire naked, relax in a field naked and I no longer was letting my penis hold me back for Im those amazing experiences.
I started with my best friend who actually shouldnt have been so mortifying but it was. I was so fearful of being teased or judged by him especially because he was my best friend. He never mentioned my size and slowly but surely joined in with some activities. Now its just normal to see eachother naked and not have it be awkward. He is hung and occasionally I still feel that twinge of jealousy but it soon passes because well nothings changing so better just accept it!
I love Korean Spas as well and its funny because stripping down there is easy compared to my first experience skinny dipping. Or getting naked camping with my best friend. For some reason strangers are so much easier to be nude around.
I learned that I enjoyed social nudity and soon formed new friendships with nudists and never once worried what they thought of me because I honestly believe they never did. I have met a few smaller nudists how have openly shared and wanted to talk about being the smaller guys and have genuinely enjoyed those conversations, shared and bonds formed because of them. Thats why I started and love this group so much, being able to share and support and learn from one another!
I look forward to reading your responses and shares about your experiences with social nudity and even if you havent bridged out to social nudists yet, please share your experiences and or fears around it.
I think this should be more of a concern for below average growers than other guys who may show this insecurity when socializing in the nudist community.
Although the differences among the guys are obvious, one will be evaluated more on our social skills when socializing than on other characteristics. I think we guys are not obsessed with the nipple size of the nudist ladies around us, even though many of them should have a similar concerns as guys with their penises.
Of course, this fact does not conflict with your own preference.
When it comes to partnering for sex, of course, this will vary according to personal preference, but that is a completely different topic.
My advice is to get out there and try to forget about this insecurity. Sure, hung guys may have some advantage in this aspect, but like all of us, we carry a baggage of different insecurities in different areas of our lives, such as education, economic solvency, social background, other body concerns, etc. etc. etc.