Guys, what do you like us to look at?
So we had a topic about what body parts you guys look at most when we ladies are in the nude. Not the most successful topic ever but a couple said I should launch a similar topic about what guys like us ladies (or other guys, if this is their sexual preference) to look at when they are in the nude.
And one thing is clear: you guys who are members of this group are more exhibitionists than voyeurs. Of course you are voyeurs too, why else would you join a group where only we ladies show ourselves naked. But at my litmus question "Would you rather be the only one naked or the only one clothed in a group or ladies (again, or of guys, if this is your sexual preference, I'm not going to repeat this each time), most of you answered "the only one naked".
I'm not sure that you are a statistically representative sample - I have always been under the impression that guys like to look at me more than they like me to look at them. But ever since I asked that question I am trying to look longer at nude guys, knowing that this gives them such pleasure.
Just like in the case of naked ladies in the previous topic, I will exclude the face. Of course I look mostly at the face, but what (other) body parts would you like me to look at if I am to admire you for ten seconds and you are nude?
Ever since I started to shoot nudity and erotica I have had the opportunity to examine several naked guys for far longer than seconds. I try to see how their body takes light and how I can make something appealing, sexy out of that. Most guys I shoot are simply props for erotica pics in which the main subject is one (or two) girl(s). But I shot separately four guys, one who is very generously made down there, one who is very slim and fit, and one who is very muscular. I'd like to shoot D, who is in a different category, but he doesn't want to model. He is I guess 100% voyeur and 0% exhibitionist.
As said in a previous topic, girls are nicer to look at and for most guys I don't need ten seconds. But fine, if I have ten sconds I'll look for maybe one-two seconds at the general frontal shape, one or two at the shape from the back, two seconds at the butt and the rest at your pride and joy. Not that I want to play with it, mind you, but it's a male part, it's so different and striking and it is usually covered - curiosity and scarcity creating value etc.
Now if you are very generously made down there I'll look for longer. Again, not because of some erotic ideas but because big is spectacular. You guys also confess that you prefer B cups but you will look longer at my Ds (let alone Es or Fs) when they appear.
On the contrary, if you have a nice body shape I'll look less at your genitals and longer at your body. But what does "nice shape" mean? I can see four options here.
The first one is the slim, effeminated young guys. Think South Korean singers/boys' band members. I think they are smooth and cute and I will look more at their general shape than at their male attributes. I like them, but not really as potential sex partners but more like I like house pets. I think it's more my maternal than sexual feelings that they stimulate in me. I know that many gay guys and very young girls see them in sexual terms, but that's not me. I feel that way about men, not toy boys. That being said, they are nice to look at and to shoot.
The second is the fit guys. You can see their muscles under the (almost) zero-fat skin. They are really nice to look at and especially nice to shoot. Put one or two lateral hard lights on them and just make them move around and you'll have nice pics.
The third is the bodybuilders. They are surely interesting to look at and easy to shoot while they flex those huge, well defined muscles. I admire and respect their dedication and hard work. Although they don't necessarily inspire much sexual feelings to me. I don't want a man who looks in the mirror more than I do, who spends all his free time in a gym, eats only chicken breast and egg white, takes protein shakes every few hours and whose testicles have shrunk for the use of all those steroids. Ok, the last one is for fun, I don't care all that much about the size of your balls guys, but heavy steroid use does make you angry and aggressive.
The fourth one is the "naturally strong" older guys. They look like they have lived an interesting life and are genetically strong men. And we are all attracted to good genes when we subconsciously evaluate a guy's mating potential, don't we. If they lost 10% of their body weight they would be very muscular, but they can't be bothered. They seem to look in a mirror only when they shave - and that's only every 3-4 days. Yeah, that's D and I like that. If the guy is also smart he will surely make an effect on me. Because the most erotic part of a guy is not his body shape, but his brain. Hearing or reading something intensely smart can make me feel all funny inside, which is not something the mere view of a guys' family jewels generally does to me.
So guys, I'll examine your nude body (face excluded) for ten seconds. What should I focus on and for how long to make it feel good for you? Promise I'll try it on many guys next Sunday and will report back.
So we had a topic about what body parts you guys look at most when we ladies are in the nude. Not the most successful topic ever but a couple said I should launch a similar topic about what guys like us ladies (or other guys, if this is their sexual preference) to look at when they are in the nude.And one thing is clear: you guys who are members of this group are more exhibitionists than voyeurs. Of course you are voyeurs too, why else would you join a group where only we ladies show ourselves naked. But at my litmus question "Would you rather be the only one naked or the only one clothed in a group or ladies (again, or of guys, if this is your sexual preference, I'm not going to repeat this each time), most of you answered "the only one naked".I'm not sure that you are a statistically representative sample - I have always been under the impression that guys like to look at me more than they like me to look at them. But ever since I asked that question I am trying to look longer at nude guys, knowing that this gives them such pleasure.Just like in the case of naked ladies in the previous topic, I will exclude the face. Of course I look mostly at the face, but what (other) body parts would you like me to look at if I am to admire you for ten seconds and you are nude?Ever since I started to shoot nudity and erotica I have had the opportunity to examine several naked guys for far longer than seconds. I try to see how their body takes light and how I can make something appealing, sexy out of that. Most guys I shoot are simply props for erotica pics in which the main subject is one (or two) girl(s). But I shot separately four guys, one who is very generously made down there, one who is very slim and fit, and one who is very muscular. I'd like to shoot D, who is in a different category, but he doesn't want to model. He is I guess 100% voyeur and 0% exhibitionist.As said in a previous topic, girls are nicer to look at and for most guys I don't need ten seconds. But fine, if I have ten sconds I'll look for maybe one-two seconds at the general frontal shape, one or two at the shape from the back, two seconds at the butt and the rest at your pride and joy. Not that I want to play with it, mind you, but it's a male part, it's so different and striking and it is usually covered - curiosity and scarcity creating value etc.Now if you are very generously made down there I'll look for longer. Again, not because of some erotic ideas but because big is spectacular. You guys also confess that you prefer B cups but you will look longer at my Ds (let alone Es or Fs) when they appear.On the contrary, if you have a nice body shape I'll look less at your genitals and longer at your body. But what does "nice shape" mean? I can see four options here.The first one is the slim, effeminated young guys. Think South Korean singers/boys' band members. I think they are smooth and cute and I will look more at their general shape than at their male attributes. I like them, but not really as potential sex partners but more like I like house pets. I think it's more my maternal than sexual feelings that they stimulate in me. I know that many gay guys and very young girls see them in sexual terms, but that's not me. I feel that way about men, not toy boys. That being said, they are nice to look at and to shoot.The second is the fit guys. You can see their muscles under the (almost) zero-fat skin. They are really nice to look at and especially nice to shoot. Put one or two lateral hard lights on them and just make them move around and you'll have nice pics.The third is the bodybuilders. They are surely interesting to look at and easy to shoot while they flex those huge, well defined muscles. I admire and respect their dedication and hard work. Although they don't necessarily inspire much sexual feelings to me. I don't want a man who looks in the mirror more than I do, who spends all his free time in a gym, eats only chicken breast and egg white, takes protein shakes every few hours and whose testicles have shrunk for the use of all those steroids. Ok, the last one is for fun, I don't care all that much about the size of your balls guys, but heavy steroid use does make you angry and aggressive.The fourth one is the "naturally strong" older guys. They look like they have lived an interesting life and are genetically strong men. And we are all attracted to good genes when we subconsciously evaluate a guy's mating potential, don't we. If they lost 10% of their body weight they would be very muscular, but they can't be bothered. They seem to look in a mirror only when they shave - and that's only every 3-4 days. Yeah, that's D and I like that. If the guy is also smart he will surely make an effect on me. Because the most erotic part of a guy is not his body shape, but his brain. Hearing or reading something intensely smart can make me feel all funny inside, which is not something the mere view of a guys' family jewels generally does to me.So guys, I'll examine your nude body (face excluded) for ten seconds. What should I focus on and for how long to make it feel good for you? Promise I'll try it on many guys next Sunday and will report back.
Well now, what an interesting topic, yes we kind of asked for it i guess!!
I suppose, like many, I'd want you to enjoy the experience as much as possible and a degree of modesty dictates the direction of the gaze... so unsurprisingly I'd want to direct you to my better features.
Start on my back please, especially shoulders, I think i have good shoulders from the back view and they belie what's round the front!! I don't possess the equally pecs to go with them! So yes please, back and legs for at least half the available time.
Overall from for a few seconds, shape, tones etc, legs and thighs. I'm told another good feature, reserving the balance for the jewels, well I'm naked anyway so why not. Anytime over, please examine the brain, I'm sure there lies my best attribute.
No dummy, Richie x
I fit into category four. I can't claim exceptional looks, but I have lived what I consider to be an interesting life. Like D, I usually find a razor every 4-5 days and am likely 12-15 pounds over my prime. I, too, don't spend any wasted time focusing on the mirror. Intelligence, well, I can't claim any awards there either, but I have operated my own business for 42 years. I have always been happy with my body and will never win accolades as a model, which is okay with me. I do love my exhibitionist side, so when nude, spend as much time as you wish looking at whatever you desire. I would also like to have a pleasant conversation while discovering each other.
Well thank you for asking
Ok I am retired now and not working as hard as I once did. Never been a gym rat or thought about just building up muscles. Yes at one time did have that young little boy body. But that was a long time ago. I hope if you looked now you would see a healthy man body and yes its twenty pounds to much after Christmas holidays again. But that food tastes so good ! Lol
Probably hope you look at my shoulders and work your way down to my legs. When I was in my forties I know my ass was shaped nicely and my legs were a lot bigger. Back then my suit size was a 46 for my shoulders. If you do take the time to look at the front ? Hopefully you see a good chest with a lot of thick hair there (like my dad had). Now that belly is not flat or muscular as it was. But not a beer belly either !
Yes I hope you would enjoy the conversation, I try to keep you smiling or at least shaking your head with laughter. Did he just say that ! Lol. My man bits are just another part of me that comes and goes with the feelings at that moment. Please do take those ten seconds to judge me ! I hope you will smile.
Oh long arms for naked hugs
As a direct answer, you'd probably note me as composite of #2 @ 20% and #4 @ 80% as a quick assessment. In past years, my musculature was very pronounced due to a light weight / body fat mixture with a low key, endurance centered exercise regimen. It helped me greatly through the years and complemented my many years of formal education. Like the earlier posts, my looks have been described as average, but have several interesting interactions with all types of people in years past to augment my intellect package. I do enjoy detailed conversations with folks at the top of their field, or those in the 'very knowledgeable' sector when those opportunities present themselves. It doesn't matter if you're a skilled cabinet maker, top shelf mechanic, statistician or research physicist; I'll absorb all you care to divulge. Please excuse me if this comes across as aggrandizement as that is not the intent. As a final note, I think I would truly enjoy a conversation (probably one-sided) with Flora on the current events in Europe. There's certainly a lot of background information driving the actions that never makes the news. 'Inquiring minds' want to know.
Good morning! Well, this is certainly an interesting topic, and very well written replies. For my 2 cents, I will throw in that i am mostly a voyeur, and maybe 10 % exhibitionist, and probably a category 4 . I get passing grades in the intellect department, maybe the dean s list...lol.. thank you Flora for your insight, and thanks responders for your honest comments. And oh, my but
Personally I don't have a preference on what I want the ladies to look at. I guess that's because I don't know what my "sexy" feature is lol. But people are attracted to different parts, so look at everything on me.
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