Getting my older neighbor to join me
I love being a home nudist and I live nextdoor to an older woman who is a retired vet. She's so funny to chat with and she also is ok with me being naked around her or in her home. I would love to get her to join me in being naked but obviously I don't want to pressure her since she is very shy and reserved when it comes to that sorta thing. I've asked her initially when she busted me getting my mail naked and I admitted to being a nudist. But now that we've talked more and she's seen me multiple times at this point, I'd love for her to enjoy being naked with me.
Any advice or tips on approaching the subject?
Slow and steady is the way to crack open a non-nudist who seems accepting of your being bare in their presence. Most in your circumstances will never join in - but I've been surprised by a few people who found out about my need to be out of my clothes at certain times, even to eventually lose some or all of their clothes on a hot day at a private pool. I don't like to push drugs -- too much -- but a little smidge of alcohol can sometimes lubricate the cloth right off! We had a wine at the winery I used to work for we'd jokingly call 'LPR', with a bottle or two of its low alcohol content in a body often having the pleasing effect of 'liquid panty remover'.
I have two suggesting, first is streight honesty, come right out and tell her your thoughts, second is a dare. If she is a hidden adventurist it might just work. In any case, keep it low keyed and relaxed with no pressure. Good luck!
My thought is that it may take hot weather for any opportunities to arise. In the absence of having a pool or tub, perhaps the desire to cool off in the heat may be the best motivation. If she comments about the heat, you can present an obvious remedy, even if initially it's only a partial solution like looser clothing or ditching restrictive underwear.