My wife went through the change almost 10 years now she is not interested at all little tuff in the beginning we use to do it alot , my wife knows I still have a good drive last summer I went to a men's nudists resort and had my wife set me up online so she knew ,Like to try bi but have not yet it is actually good to see others have same problems
Yeah my wife use to enjoy being nude and even did some light swinging but a little over 6 years ago she lost all interest in being naked or any kind of sex . So I enjoy being nude when I can and would like to find someone to hang out with
Wife of 57 is going through premenopause and has no interest because it hurts. And doesnt even want to play with me. Even when Ive given myself a shot to get hard she has no interest. She still enjoys being nude at beaches and resorts. I was bi before meeting her so she knows Ive played but doesnt ask if I still play. I keep it on the down low.
Boy! Are we in the same boat! For the first 2 - 3 years after my prostate cancer surgery I used injections to get hard. So, we continued to have a mutually satisfying sex life. Then she developed a condition that made intercourse painful. For a short time we switched to mutual oral, but that did not last long. She got to where she was just not interested in any sexual activity, which is where we are now. I used to have a friend I jacked with in high school, but we never did anything to each other. That was the last time I did anything with a guy. So, doing anything with a guy now would be totally new territory for me. Plus, I have a major concern about my wife finding out and it ruining our marriage, which, otherwise, is very good. So, I'm really not sure where I'll go from here.
Wow, there are certainly more than a few on this site with similar situations to mine. My wife, early 70shas lost all interest sex with me. She told me a few years ago that she doesn't need to do that anymore. She doesn't want me touching her, The apparent contradiction is that she still enjoys getting naked on beaches with others and staying at nude resorts. So, I'm happy for that. Our sex life was never great, she always seemed to find excuses for avoiding it, and when we did have sex, it was unspectacular. Rarely did she act as though she was enjoying it. The main problem is that she refuses to discuss anything related to sex, like it's something naughty and she is not a naughty woman. So like one previous contributor remarked, I have two choices, live with it or move on. Moving on involves much more than I'm willing to give up, so I put up with it, unhappily.
This is exactly me. Wife is early menopausal and has absolutely no desire in anything sexual. I was getting along with self-play, but missed it. So, I frequent nude camps and beaches solo. Last time I went, I fooled around with a guy. I then realized how much I actually misses being a sexual being.
Quite sad your boats been stuck in the doldrums for a minute! I may not be a marriage guru, are you keeping her feeling like the queen she is? Maybe a little flirtatious attention can work wonders! Im not saying you should go eyeing someone else, but maybe ask her playfully if shed mind you turning on that charm to remind her how irresistible she is.
My partner and I had incredible sex, but once the menopause started she lost all interest.
I continued to flirt, compliment but while she (obviously) enjoys them it doesn't create any desire. I suggested she tried another man but she was completely off that idea. Another woman wasn't appealing either.
So I don't know if her desires will return.
She encouraged previously I explored with other men (when she had lustings it really turned her on). I assume now that's why men turn to other men for sexual gravitation? I don't know if that's an option for the original poster (?)
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