Question for NMs What do you look for (or not look for) in a CF or CM?
Hey guys
Im a CM in the CMNM / CFNM scene and curious to hear from the NM side of things.
When youre the naked one, what makes a CF or CM enjoyable for you? Is it:
How they watch you? Their attitude and energy? Confidence vs. subtlety?
On the flip side what turns you off, or makes you not want to play with a CF or CM? Something else?
I figure every NM has a different vibe theyre after, and itd be great to hear the range. Whether youve got one sentence or a whole story to share, Id love to learn what matters most to you.
Ive enjoyed both sides of CMNM and CFNM, but whenever I can be nude, I will usually be on the NM side of that situation. Usually I strive for is a sense that its perfectly normal to be naked regardless of how other person is dressed. Non nudist visitors to a nudist household for example. Or traveling with a friend But confidence varies. I was at a potluck party held at a CO resort where many non nudist locals (M&F) were attending. I only knew 3 people there. But I decided to join the one other naked guy, two of us out of about seventy. It required a deep breath and confidence building to express the commitment to nudism that one time, but its usually easier. Sometimes I feel like I am helping others build a sense that nude is normal too. I cant deny that there are some situations where being the only nude one can be highly sensual though. At a bar, is one situation.
Decisively the NM is my side of mix. Normally for CM it's exciting, but - I think - also helpful. It opens new horizons of friendship, normalizes nudity, helps him accept and exploit our vulnerabilities and discover that true strength lies in standing naked in front of others. The real power of mind requires no clothes. In the history, humanity created dominations over others and inequality through clothes. The desire to be NM in front of CM removes these historical contaminations from clothes. Being really powerful doesn't need to cover yourself. For many CMs it is also tempting to cross over to the other side.
I typically practice CMNM scenarios at home when hosting friends who aren't nudists themselves but are aware of my lifestyle. Like @Alfresco10 mentioned, I aim to create an atmosphere where my nudity feels as natural as their clothed state. It might sound overly simple, but being unclothed truly is my default mode of existence. There's something profoundly liberating about ita freedom that radiates from within. I value expressing my authentic self, even around those who choose to remain dressed. I've noticed that while friends might initially seem uncertain or awkward, they adapt remarkably quickly to the situation. Personally, I find deep satisfaction in embracing the nude role in these interactions.
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