Inverted nipples
Diane is arguably the most beautiful of my girlfriends. There is no part of her body which is truly, maybe not the most shapely legs or the most beautiful eyes or lips, but all is just right and comes together strikingly sweet. She is also very young, 28 looking 18, she is blonde with clear blue eyes, she is of average height and built but with long legs and she has adorably perky C-cups.
Not that I had seen them before last month but she rarely wears a bra and you can tell by the way they hand and move that they are perfect. She had never wanted to pose for me or to accompany me and D to a German spa. You can tell if people are intrigued, attracted or disgusted by the idea of public nudity and she was clearly interested but always said no - and found some excuse to not join us.
So about one month ago she visited me and I shot some portraits of her sweet face. We had a glass of bubbles or two and she told me that she liked my pics and she would like to pose for me for more than portraits but the reason for her prudeness was that she had inverted nipples. Or rather one inverted nipple, as the right one does pop out when touched - and as it is very sensitive it's often out. But the left one remains desperately inside. She was considering surgery, although the results were not guaranteed.
I asked to see them and she showed them to me. I asked to take a pic and she said "only if you add a nipple to my left breast". I said ok. I don't use Photoshop, but I added on my tablet a simple shadow on the left areola and it looked like the nipple was out. When I showed it to her she was so pleased with the result that she authorised me to publish the pic on the public part of my portfolio and the next week she posed naked for me. The next Sunday she also accompanied me and D to Sinsheim and she thoroughly enjoyed the experience, which was her first with public nudity. But she remained so painfully self-conscious about her missing nipple that whenever it could be seen, when say going down or up the stairs in and from the pool, showering and even in the sauna she covered her left breast with one hand or arm. In fact, she preferred the hammam because you can't see people very well through that dense fog so we ended by doing only one sauna session and three hammams.
She was otherwise not shy at all, in fact I think she enjoyed being seen naked as her towel was often too high to cover her or only on her shoulders and she basically never used the robe, she fully enjoyed the erotic experience of those beds and she asked D to rub salt on her backside when exiting the hammam - but she never let anyone see that missing button.
Now I am not saying that I would prefer to have inverted nipples or that nipples don't matter, but honestly she is such a beauty that I think nobody would even notice that little flaw. I saw her naked without covering her nipple and it was definitely not something which attracted my attention but she clearly can't get past it and enjoy nudism fully.
Both I and D tried to reassure her, we told her how beautiful she is (she truly is, she was the most strikingly beautiful girl in the whole place) but to no avail. She did relax towards the end of our stay, in the Dead Sea salt pool, she floated for a couple of minutes with both her breasts up and out in the open, but for the rest of our six-hour stay her hand or arm would cover her left breast whenever breasts were visible.
She currently has no boyfriend and she told me that she normally keeps her top or bra on even in those intimate moments. And that the real dare she did in Sinsheim was not to show her body to unknown people, but to show her little flaw to D in the Sea the Sea salt pool.
She promised to come by next weekend for a classical nude photo session - this time in D's presence - and to join us again at spas. I intend to make her relax and forget her complex but honestly, I would never be self-conscious about an inverted nipple, I don't find it in any way more unpleasant to look at then say a small skin imperfection. And yes, I am sometimes stubborn so I am sure I will succeed in helping her love her body as it merits - all of it.
And you? What do you think about inverted nipples? On a scale 1 to 10, where 1 is "I wouldn't even notice it" and "10 is "I would turn my eyes away in disgust" how put off are you by the sight of an inverted nipples on a beautiful girl?
It wouldn't go unnoticed, but it's also no problem. I'm sure most of us could identify a part of our body that we find unsatisfactory. I've thing I love about nudidts is the acceptance that we're all different and it doesn't matter one we asked or clothes. (It shouldn't matter with clothes, but I'm sure we've all heard judgement passed over, for example, someone's swimsuit bring inappropriate based on their figure.)
Having said that, there's little suction cups especially designed to correct that issue. Would she consider trying those if her current situation is such a concern?
I don't believe an amount of coaxing is going to change how she feels about it, its something your friend will come to accept, or not.
I speak from experience. An accident this year meant i lost a forefinger past my first knuckle, a freak accident that left me very self conscious about the missing part of my finger. But people don't really notice (whether I'm dressed or undressed!) People, generally, I have found are incredibly unobservant and it's this lack of noticing that has enabled me to become less selfconscious, this is what your friend needs... she needs to see people not notice, and 90% won't even see it, a large part of the other 10% won't care... that is what will get your friend to embrace her difference not hate it.
I agree and this is why we will take her to spas until she no longer cares. Of course, she is hard not to look at and she may misinterpret people's glances. But indeed, I don't think many people will notice a little flaw if they only look for the acceptable two seconds at her - too much beauty to take in. I could show her to you on TS - but only with the fake nipple on.
I used to be very self-conscious about the pimple (sometimes even two) which I sometimes get on my butt -typically around oestrus. They are not huge but I hesitated to take my bottom down in public. I had the impression that everybody looks at my butt, which they probably did - but for the right , not the wrong reasons. The danger is that, as she is so pretty and has such great breasts she will think that people look at them for the wrong reasons. I don't care much now -but I still put some water resistant foundation on them -while knowing perfectly well that no foundation is fully waterproof.
Another intimate non-no for me: I will not visit spas and, if I'm in a nude resort, will not drop my bottom during those days of the month (luckily for me, only about 3). Yet, I saw many girls and women very happy to display that little string and take advance of sun, sea or pools during that time. We all have different level of self-consciousness.
The 2nd girl i dated in college had inverted nipples. I thought she was beautiful in every way. They would pop out only with attention. ..and then pop back in. It didnt bother me that they came out at different times. I think she was a little self- concious when she first let me see her naked. She made a comment before she took her top off. They were lovely in their own way.
I agree and this is why we will take her to spas until she no longer cares. Of course, she is hard not to look at and she may misinterpret people's glances. But indeed, I don't think many people will notice a little flaw if they only look for the acceptable two seconds at her - too much beauty to take in. I could show her to you on TS - but only with the fake nipple on.I used to be very self-conscious about the pimple (sometimes even two) which I sometimes get on my butt -typically around oestrus. They are not huge but I hesitated to take my bottom down in public. I had the impression that everybody looks at my butt, which they probably did - but for the right , not the wrong reasons. The danger is that, as she is so pretty and has such great breasts she will think that people look at them for the wrong reasons. I don't care much now -but I still put some water resistant foundation on them -while knowing perfectly well that no foundation is fully waterproof.Another intimate non-no for me: I will not visit spas and, if I'm in a nude resort, will not drop my bottom during those days of the month (luckily for me, only about 3). Yet, I saw many girls and women very happy to display that little string and take advance of sun, sea or pools during that time. We all have different level of self-consciousness.
You won't be able to show her to me as I'm no longer in ENL TS.
I know that Richie. Jeanne was occasionally uploading her own pics, but who do you think was uploading all the others. Wish you all the best with your new group - although it looks like only gay groups are successful there. Which is not surprising seen that there are over 9 men for 1 woman on the site. If that.
I'm sorry to be replying this late but just saw the post; I'd agree that I would not notice the nipple and if I did, it wouldn't color my overall thoughts on her looks. I'm sure she is a radiant beauty just by your (Flora's) description; hopefully she will eventually note that most won't notice and she'll be fine.