My father raised me alone since I was 10 and that's when we truly bonded as father and son and started being naked all the time together. It was an amazing, intense, emotional, beautiful experience that cannot really be put into words.
I think, I know what you mean. My Dad wanted to raised me and my two sisters as nudists. Mum dont wanted it. So, he raised me nude covered. He did this also with a christian intention. So, we had a double fixed bond: The christian faith and the nudity. By the covered sitiation we was very close. Was also intense and emotional experience. Cannot put into words too, how it felts what me and my Dad experienced.
It might be different for every guy, but for me I started becoming curious about girls and sex in 4th grade. I started exploring my feelings and my body at age 10 and naturally I started noticing and comparing myself to my dad. The first time I felt his cock semi hard, purely unintentional while cuddling together in his bed btw, I remember being kinda shocked. lol That's when I asked him about it and if mine would do that someday. Thankfully, my dad was very cool about it and explained everything to me without ever making it embarrassing or weird. He offered to teach me and help me with anything I wanted to know.
Best advice I could give, is to just be open minded and cool with your son when you notice he's having those thoughts or feelings.
Masturbation between generations should be natural and comfortable. As a single divorced dad, I was careful not to have erections or masturbate in front of my sons until I could trust it wouldn't get back to their bipolar mother, as she regularly threatened to take me to court and restrict our time. As courts favor women, I didn't want to give her anything she could misconstrue, and can she misconstrue. I made it clear to our sons that I regret how their parents' values conflict and encouraged them to adopt the best of both of us. Given my power differential as a dad, I've also been careful not to suggest anything which could feel coercive, and have encouraged them to experience and experiment with their peers. Now they are in their 20s and I'm more open about nudity and masturbation than they are. I've had other young men reach out to me and encouraged masturbation as being in the flow of the power of the universe, that from stardust we come and releasing our seed to the sky is acknowelging and honoring how to stardust we return while also living lives of great power and vitality.
Thank you so much for starting this thread and conversation. Men like you give me hope for a better world!
May I make myself very vulnerable and ask some honest questions? Please dont judge me. I truly want to navigate a new friendship in the healthiest way possible.
I was not raised to be a nudist. And since becoming one, Ive always been in awe of nudist families, who raise their children to embrace their bodies and sexuality, without shame. What a gift to their childrenand to a society that is otherwise raising children to hide their authentic, beautiful selves.
And if were honest, we live in a time when child abuse is in the headlines, and prosecution of suspected perpetrators is harsh and rampant.
I recently met a man through another nude website, who lives in a different country. He is raising his three sons (12, 14 and 18) to be nudists. As we have texted and then talked, we have become close. Ive expressed my admiration and respect, and hes expressed how much he and the boys would like to share their lives with someone like me.
Weve scheduled a vacation together where they will stay in my home this summer. We'll do tourist things (clothed) and also go to the nude beaches and nude hiking. We'll cook together, hang out around the house, and watch tv together...all naked.
As weve talked, Ive asked lots of questions about how they live, what to expect and how I should engage with the boys. As weve talked, Ive heard (like many of you here) how healthy this is for their communication, trust and closeness. Ive learned that sometimes, he and his sons masturbate together. Sometimes, they shower together. And, he (with the boys permission) has invited me to be a part of these activities. That is the part that makes me nervous!
Ive told him, I will only participate in any nude activities with his children, if he is present, and if the boys specifically ask me to join them. I never want to harm or abuse a child in any way! And to be clear, I have no sexual interest in children. But, nor do I want to communicate that what theyre doing is wrong, shameful or somehow less than positive.
He has expressed his fears of opening their very private lives to someone outside of their family. So, were both navigating our fears through this.
I am thrilled (in a non-sexual way) with the idea of sharing in this kind of intimate, familial setting. Its the kind of family one can only dream of!
So, my questions are these:
What additional boundaries (if any), do you think I should set?
What legal risks am I creating for myself?
Is there anything else that I should be thinking of, as we plan this get-together?
Thank you in advance for the benefit of your experience and wisdom...and inclusion.
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