what you have said and expressed is so true and should be understood it can and does happen and it's said what society deems right or wrong it should always be up to the those involved in whats right and whats wrong for them and their family
If I may add something: I've been mostly naked since I was five, when I went to live with my aunt and grandfather. My cousin is six months older, and we already had a nudist household because of the circumstances.So I had a naked childhood and adolescence with my cousin, and it never felt strange to us. My aunt always gave us sex education very early on whenever we had questionsincluding about growth and sexuality.We went through a stage of interest and curiosity and didn't experience anything like shame about our bodies. And we didn't experience any judgment or condemnation. It was simply the naked truth, without any secrets.I think that's why we can put everything into perspective much better today and don't have to uncover any secrets or see any attraction in nudity.In short: Our bodies came into contact with our natural destiny as sexual beings very early on. Nothing was forbidden or taboo. This allows us to choose our partners in a self-determined and loving way today. Instead of the impulsive and judgmental approach that's currently so prevalent in my generation.Due to the prevailing hysteria surrounding the tabooing or prohibition of sexual activity from an early age, society has created unnecessary pressure that manifests itself in the indiscriminate choice of sexual partners and the lack of meaningful relationships among young people and their parents.This is also logical, because there's a lot of catching up to do in terms of human development. It's frightening how casually words like "body count" are used these days, without questioning whether the mindset behind them isn't quite dehumanizing. For me/us, nudity is no longer linked to sexuality. Nudity and sex are bodily sensations that one can share or not. It has nothing to do with a romantic bubble, but is a special form of encounter and communication between our souls.This realization was made tangible for us as naked children from a very early age. Sooner or later, everyone realizes this. Usually around age 60, my aunt says.So we're simply dealing with a phase shift. Children from nudist families simply skip 50 years of sexual identity formation and can use their energy in other ways and in a more targeted manner, because not everything revolves around sex and the availability of sex.
Hello, may I ask what this has to do with my question?
what you have said and expressed is so true and should be understood it can and does happen and it's said what society deems right or wrong it should always be up to the those involved in whats right and whats wrong for them and their family
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Wow, Jasmina, it's great that you had the courage to speak out. I've had similar experiences, if not the same ones. We really don't need to worry about our worth or exhaust ourselves on social media platforms. Our lives are much calmer, and we're self-aware. There's a completely different value system when you're raised naked because nothing revolves around judgments and standards anymore. We have nothing to hide and don't need to mask and conceal ourselves behind status symbols like branded bags or shoes. We use all the energy that the textile-obsessed youth wastes on this for peaceful coexistence. It would be great if other young people would also share their perspectives. Many boast about having grown up naked. And I don't understand why, once again, only the older generation seems to have something to say about it. Why don't you ask your children and grandchildren what they think? Our Joana from the book SMS, A View into Life of Nudist Families: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FYRJXHLR (English) was also such an icon. "Family First" was her motto. What motto do clothed teenagers have? "I have to be better than the others?" Do you see the difference? And dear author of the original question: Yes, we are totally unstressed and free from the competitive mindset that creates stress. Because we were raised naked AND, consequently, were able to develop an early sexual identity that fosters exactly that!
Dear Alex, I didn't want to simply answer your question with "Yes." That would look rather silly, wouldn't it? Or did you expect it to be exactly that? "YES, your friends are right." Why, and why? I tried to provide the only logical explanation that seemed right to me. Which Charliese has now summed up perfectly. (Thank you for that.)
And I took the liberty of answering as someone affected, someone who can judge because I live within this model. Or did you only want to discuss this with peers, people without children? It's ALWAYS about finding your sexual identity and developing a distinct sense of self. Without a fixed place in your body and consciousness, you'll always be stressed and searching for your purpose or your worth.
Because this place has remained empty in most individuals in modern society, due to prohibitions, stigmatization, and the taboo surrounding our most natural expressions, nudity, people start looking for it externally. And especially on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. A fatal mistake and an evolutionary dead end. Never before has so much knowledge been lost, and never before has the world seemed so small.
When my grandfather was little, there were vast, unexplored jungles and ocean depths. Today, there's a Starbucks and a McDonald's. But we have the internet, right? Or so you think. What happens when it's shut down?
Okay, nobody wants to hear that. So, yes.
Bit of a silly question. You be yourself anyway you like and prefer, people don't have to look at you. We might have to put up with people who don't or can't speak properly or play loud music, but that is normal as well. I've probably been nude with lots of gay or lesbian people at a resort or beach and not knowing doesn't make any difference to a good conversation or friendship. It's my choice to do something about it or not, if I'm approached for sex or anything particularly intimate like swapping sun cream applications. Same thing for anyone else on this planet. 1038 25022026
Because of the lack of a shame barrier, people are much more relaxed.
The sooner it's overcome, the better. Then it's easier to apply and be applied lotion. I would consider myself a late bloomer, but I can easily pass this relaxed attitude on to those in my care and their parents.
Even little Hans can still learn something in this case (I hope you know the saying: "What little Hans doesn't learn, big Hans will never learn." That doesn't apply here. You just need someone to take you by the hand (thanks Conny) or you can pull yourself out of the mess).
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