Reconstructed breasts

Hi all

Im interested in nudism and when I ask my wife about going to a nude beach she responds with no one would want to see my breasts. Understandably she is self conscious about it.
A little back story.
She had breast cancer and had both removed. Reconstructive surgery failed on one and a different procedure had to happen which involves more scaring. Her nipples are tattoos, they look real at 1st glance.
My question is do you see many women with reconstructed breasts?

Thanks

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RE:Reconstructed breasts

My sympathies that your gal has gone through such difficulties, and my thanks to you for giving her what sounds like the deepest support to help her through it. Keep that up, man! If only everyone got that level of needed assistance in trying times.

Nudists naturally see it all -- that is one of the many pleasures of living life 'out there', with no place for us to hide away the most intimate parts of ourselves. Yes, around the resort we do commonly see such things, and bear witness to the widely varying way people adjust to what options are left to them after the doctor's have done what is needed.

With me now in my twenty-second year of regular nudism, I have seen a lot of natural bodies altered, for both necessary and totally unnecessary reasons. And still, sometimes I find my senses shocked by what I see.

The human body is an amazing piece of sculpture, regardless of your religious/biological opinions about why we are how we are. We're born with it but that's not all there is - we've got about 3.2 billions seconds to live, and what comes on later, whether via personal choice or through some medical imperative, I always do my best to normalize what gifts I am offered through a life lived bare, reminding myself that not everyone has a choice about what their outer shell looks like.

Scars and abnormalities are often the truest testaments to a person's life, and should be treated as such. To look, to not shy away, can, at times, be a challenge when my eyes catch sight of what could be trauma that still aches the wearer's psyche, telling me of a moment in their life that could have been the final act if no intervention was taken. To still have the opportunity for me to be a witness to their life, with me knowing more about their story through what is obvious on their exterior - disregarding whether it diminishes or enhances how they feel about themselves - my respect for their journey is given by regarding them in their totality and without reserve. The portrait of their life that they are freely letting me see, a thing that they are really asking me to look at through our shared nudity, therein is the truth, that those alterations have made them into someone more than they were before.

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Hi allIm interested in nudism and when I ask my wife about going to a nude beach she responds with no one would want to see my breasts. Understandably she is self conscious about it.A little back story.She had breast cancer and had both removed. Reconstructive surgery failed on one and a different procedure had to happen which involves more scaring. Her nipples are tattoos, they look real at 1st glance.My question is do you see many women with reconstructed breasts?Thanks

No one will give her a second look. You will see lots of scars and other body modifications. It is just life.

John aka Cobeachbum

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