RE: Married but wife not a nudist, males are not all creepy...

have to agree but unfortunatley because of the actions of some others who dont know how to treat people with repect we all get tarred with the same brush not all people judge us that way , but a majority its just a fact that we have to live with unfortunatley, but in time maybe with the right attitude and doing the right thing we will all be able to enjoy the company and friendship that everyone deserves , best wishes

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RE: Married but wife not a nudist, males are not all creepy...

I used to be a mingle, but am divorced now. I have found that by going to chat I have made a lot of friends even though I am single. I have friends who want me to come visit if I am ever in their part of the country or world and have had some visit me at my home. They took the time to get to know me and we became friends. I feel that the ones who don't want to know me because I am single, it is their loss.

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ibnaked whenever possible although my lifstyle was hampered when I married twenty years ago andwiferefused to participate or allow. I divorced last year and am happy to be FREE from the chains that bound me. Ihave been enjoying my backyardand have visited a resort in Sacramanto a couple of timesalthough Ifelt un-welcome and lonely. I had a very busy Summer running two business's (one a start up) and have deferred my 'vacation' untill the Christmas Holladay (four days).I am planning a trip to Palm Springs,am bi but not Gay and do not want to stay in Warm Springs and be hit on all day. I look to relax, read a book, and exist......I did book a room at a nice resort to enjoy the above mentioned but realised the compormise (not optional) wouldbeuncomfortable so am now searching to find a singles friendly resort (not cruiser resort)which provesdifficult. The distast for singles does not line up with the lifestyle in my opinion and seams hypocriticle. Bad people can be married or single and singles can be bad or good; take them for what they are worth and ban the bad, welcome the good.

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RE: Married but wife not a nudist, males are not all creepy...

Having a wife who is only going nude on few occassions, like holidays, I can call myself an part-time mingle

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I'm not sure where I fall in all of this. My wife is fine being nude just about anywhere as long as it's JUST us, and no one else can see...She's gone on a 3 mile hike naked with me, and been in the back yard, mostly the hot tub, naked on many occasions. The problem is, she just doesn't really care for people in general, so to take the leap into social nudity would be HUGE for her. As for me, I used to have a friend that had a way of getting everyone that was hanging out at my apartment out of their clothes, but that was before I met my wife. Since then, I haven't been in any social nude situations, but I miss it. I would like to be able to enjoy the freedom I felt back then just hanging out with friends naked, but with the wife not being into it, I feel like I'd be seen as just another perv...it'd be great if the "mingle" thing caught on....

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RE: Married but wife not a nudist, males are not all creepy...

Bump!

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RE: Great topic!

Ah well, at least my wife is cool with my lifestyle, but others are quick to judge...If you're in San Diego on a hot day see you at Blacks...

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RE: Married but wife not a nudist, males are not all creepy...

People have issues with nudity, self confidence...ah well, we have to keep showing them its not about the sex, just freedom...

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RE: Married but wife not a nudist, males are not all creepy...

Really, good idea about flagging judgmental types, get to know somebody first...

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