I was chatting with a friend on Facebook yesterday, and I may get a chance to introduce him to the comforts of social nudity. He lives outside New York City, and I told him how I knew the area where he lived. The subject of the Korean Spa, Spa Castle, came up, and now he says he would like to go with me. I told him he doesn't need me to go with him, and that it is a safe place if you are alone. But he insisted that we go together. LOLI am now flattered that he thinks I would be a cool enough person to introduce him to something so new to him. I guess we let our minds go wild on what might go "wrong," only to find out nothing is wrong about it at all. As has been said before, there should be nothing unusual about seeing a bud naked. Or a stranger naked as long as it is the appropriate way for the situation. Nudity for a massage, sauna or shower should be expected.
Agree totally. At the very least it should be accepted. Used to have massages with undies on, with all that fiddling by masseur pushing them aside. Then one day simply asked if ok if i removed them and massages have been much more comfortable ever since. A professional masseur is very good at dealing with this in an appropriate manner so as to make even a non-nudist comfortable. Will broader society ever get over equating nude with sex
Most of my friends have seen me naked at one time or the other. Sometimes they have been naked with me, at the other times not and I would be the only one naked with them. At places like sauna, swimming pool, locker room, communal showers, I have been with my friends and we have been naked together. No big deal. Some of my non nudist friends tend to remain clothed even when I am naked at certain occasions. Like at my home, I am usually naked while my non nudists visitors are usually clothed.
Similarly at cloth optional beaches and clubs, one of my best buddies is always clothed while I tend to drop my cloths as soon as I enter the place. We both hang out together and have fun. None of us care if the other person is clothed or naked.
Was just in an interesting place with a bud that I have been friends with for many years. We went to Las Vegas a few weeks back. I wanted to go to a mens spa but did not want the guys I went went with to know about it.....anyway, I went to the spa and was sitting in the hot tub naked when my bud walks in, we see each other and have a moment of reality....he dropped his towel and got in....I was a little freaked by it but after a few mins was calmer. When it came time to get out, we both agreed it was awkward and just do it....so we did and it was not that strange really. He went off to get a massage and I went to another part of the spa but we got back together at the juice bar at the end and talked about guy stuff of the trip. It was odd but liberating....anybody else have an experience like that with a bud where you both were suddenly naked in front of each other?
Was just in an interesting place with a bud that I have been friends with for many years. We went to Las Vegas a few weeks back. I wanted to go to a mens spa but did not want the guys I went went with to know about it.....anyway, I went to the spa and was sitting in the hot tub naked when my bud walks in, we see each other and have a moment of reality....he dropped his towel and got in....I was a little freaked by it but after a few mins was calmer. When it came time to get out, we both agreed it i never have...yetwas awkward and just do it....so we did and it was not that strange really. He went off to get a massage and I went to another part of the spa but we got back together at the juice bar at the end and talked about guy stuff of the trip. It was odd but liberating....anybody else have an experience like that with a bud where you both were suddenly naked in front of each other?
Was just in an interesting place with a bud that I have been friends with for many years. We went to Las Vegas a few weeks back. I wanted to go to a mens spa but did not want the guys I went went with to know about it.....anyway, I went to the spa and was sitting in the hot tub naked when my bud walks in, we see each other and have a moment of reality....he dropped his towel and got in....I was a little freaked by it but after a few mins was calmer. When it came time to get out, we both agreed it i never have...yetwas awkward and just do it....so we did and it was not that strange really. He went off to get a massage and I I have not...yet. I live where the nudist opportunities are few so it is only a matter of time.went to another part of the spa but we got back together at the juice bar at the end and talked about guy stuff of the trip. It was odd but liberating....anybody else have an experience like that with a bud where you both were suddenly naked in front of each other?