RE: Being Naked around Buds

I have seen almost all of my (male) friends nude. The culture of sauna that we have here in Sweden makes it no big thing.

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Nudity for a massage, sauna or shower should be expected.

Agree totally. At the very least it should be accepted. Used to have massages with undies on, with all that fiddling by masseur pushing them aside. Then one day simply asked if ok if i removed them and massages have been much more comfortable ever since. A professional masseur is very good at dealing with this in an appropriate manner so as to make even a non-nudist comfortable. Will broader society ever get over equating nude with sex

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RE: Nudity for a massage, sauna or shower should be expected.

Most of my friends have seen me naked at one time or the other. Sometimes they have been naked with me, at the other times not and I would be the only one naked with them. At places like sauna, swimming pool, locker room, communal showers, I have been with my friends and we have been naked together. No big deal. Some of my non nudist friends tend to remain clothed even when I am naked at certain occasions. Like at my home, I am usually naked while my non nudists visitors are usually clothed.
Similarly at cloth optional beaches and clubs, one of my best buddies is always clothed while I tend to drop my cloths as soon as I enter the place. We both hang out together and have fun. None of us care if the other person is clothed or naked.

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

Was just in an interesting place with a bud that I have been friends with for many years. We went to Las Vegas a few weeks back. I wanted to go to a mens spa but did not want the guys I went went with to know about it.....anyway, I went to the spa and was sitting in the hot tub naked when my bud walks in, we see each other and have a moment of reality....he dropped his towel and got in....I was a little freaked by it but after a few mins was calmer. When it came time to get out, we both agreed it was awkward and just do it....so we did and it was not that strange really. He went off to get a massage and I went to another part of the spa but we got back together at the juice bar at the end and talked about guy stuff of the trip. It was odd but liberating....anybody else have an experience like that with a bud where you both were suddenly naked in front of each other?

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

Was just in an interesting place with a bud that I have been friends with for many years. We went to Las Vegas a few weeks back. I wanted to go to a mens spa but did not want the guys I went went with to know about it.....anyway, I went to the spa and was sitting in the hot tub naked when my bud walks in, we see each other and have a moment of reality....he dropped his towel and got in....I was a little freaked by it but after a few mins was calmer. When it came time to get out, we both agreed it i never have...yetwas awkward and just do it....so we did and it was not that strange really. He went off to get a massage and I went to another part of the spa but we got back together at the juice bar at the end and talked about guy stuff of the trip. It was odd but liberating....anybody else have an experience like that with a bud where you both were suddenly naked in front of each other?

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

Was just in an interesting place with a bud that I have been friends with for many years. We went to Las Vegas a few weeks back. I wanted to go to a mens spa but did not want the guys I went went with to know about it.....anyway, I went to the spa and was sitting in the hot tub naked when my bud walks in, we see each other and have a moment of reality....he dropped his towel and got in....I was a little freaked by it but after a few mins was calmer. When it came time to get out, we both agreed it i never have...yetwas awkward and just do it....so we did and it was not that strange really. He went off to get a massage and I I have not...yet. I live where the nudist opportunities are few so it is only a matter of time.went to another part of the spa but we got back together at the juice bar at the end and talked about guy stuff of the trip. It was odd but liberating....anybody else have an experience like that with a bud where you both were suddenly naked in front of each other?

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

All my friends have seen me naked and vice versa.this during sports, wellness in sauna stream room and so on.no problem here in Europe.even in public swimming pool in the shower I do meet even neighbours naked. A normal thing.

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

I've never had a problem with it, communal showers after a game of golf or football. Nothing to be shy about.

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

I have a friend that lives in another city, but when he comes to visit me we are always naked.
Playing video games naked and just hanging out, and of course we talk about sex and stuff, you know just guy stuff,, and if someone of us gets a hard on the other one doesn't care.
We even watch porn together and drink beer. Just some fun guy stuff. I think its cool ta have a bud like that are so open and doesnt care.

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RE: Being Naked around Buds

many years ago I purchased a hot tub. From day one the house rules have been posted above it.1. Use common sense ( that is what the 1/2" manual boiled down to )2. No swimsuits allowed.
Only bent the 2nd rule a few times, many of my friends both male and female as well as passing travelers who I havejust met have followed the rules and stripped to soak.It has allowed me to introduce many of my friends to social nudity. When they come out the first time, I an clothedwe eat and then when it comes time to soak, we strip. The next time they come I just start nude myself, figure theyhave seen everything already so why start with clothes. Some join me nude for the meal, others wait for soak timeto bare all.
My rule of thumb is if the other person is comfortable with my lack of clothes while around them, then I am naked.

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