Why women dislike coming here....

I spend a more of my time in the forums, but sometimes enter chat and this is what we encounter, after closing out many, many PM's and then the messages begin in the room, as whisper messages, disrupting the flow of the conversation. Now many here don't use chat, but if you want more nudist women....here is the biggest problem: (these are copy and paste from tonight when no Mods are in the room)
realnudism EvansBetterHalf(Whisper message): are y topless or totally naked?

realnudism EvansBetterHalf(Whisper message): can u please stand up ??? u have great
nudity
realnudism EvansBetterHalf(Whisper message): ok show me that ass to be able to kiss

EvansBetterHalf realnudism(Whisper message): I am copying this and sending it to admin,
by the way

realnudism EvansBetterHalf(Whisper message): sorry

realnudism EvansBetterHalf(Whisper message): i just like to tell u how sexy r u

realnudism EvansBetterHalf (Whisper message): sorry
realnudism EvansBetterHalf(Whisper message):
bye!

Nuff said????? Future posting from freaks to come.
Edit: Fixing spacing to shorten the post!

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RE: Why women dislike coming here....

Some people have a bit strange comprehension of social interaction. Probably if they line up at supermarket cashier they talk to one before and after "hi" say "your tits look hot and ur ass is pretty exciting, too". If they do not, what makes them think social rules in chat are so different from real world?
TravelNudie

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RE: Why women dislike coming here....

There will always be some perverted low life who feels safe to abuse others on here and any other site, simply because to him, the net is not reality. Very sad, but it is now a nomal way of life for these jerks.
It may be hard at times, but the best thing to do is, laugh at them and ignore them.

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RE: Why women dislike coming here....

theres always 1 nut that stuffs it up 4 all give him the boot

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He has been flagged, blocked and reported.....in a perfect world this would not be necessary, but then again this is the web where freaks will be freaks and the good people pay for it.

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You are very correct, some people will never get it. Whichmeans the people who actually posess morals and social graces will usually end up paying for the ignorant, crass and crude jerks. Being behind a computer gives some people a sense of nothavingto follow accepted social norms and behaviors, thesense that they are free to truly show the world (at least this small part of it) howextremely classy they can be.

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RE: Why women dislike coming here....a solution?

How about a single-and blatantly obvious- button that 1.) Flags the chat to the admin & mods.
This would be a challenge at best, impossible at worst.

Chat is admitedly ephemeral in nature, so very difficult to police at all.
Auto-copy would be difficult with any type of flash based chat, but not impossible assuming you wrote the flash chat pretty much from scratch.
Third-party hosted chat, that's a whole 'nother thing, likely would require the cooperation and support of that provider. Again, not impossible, but...
It's generally provided for developers, administrators, and sometimes moderators, but I've never seen such beyond that.
Could be done, but I'm not sure it's worth the effort.
2.) Copies and pastes the chat to a forum thread specifically dedicated to exposing the pervs.
"Burn her. She's a WIIITCH !!"

I'd oppose such public lynchings prima facia.
If admin is doing his job, AND if these things are truly inconsistent with the powers-that-be vision of what should and should not be on this site, such public lynchings would not be necessary, although I do understand the feelings.
Unfortunately, the original flagging "system" encouraged public lynchings, intentionally or otherwise, and that hasn't worked all that well so far, obviously. It did three years ago, when the site was much, much smaller, but didn't scale well.

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