RE: First social nudism experience

I wish I could have a similar experience(s), I'm having a real problem finding local nudists to hang out with and become friends with.

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RE: First social nudism experience

I introduced my wife to nudism and she never hesitated at the first nude event we went to. Soon we started hosting events at our house and it's not uncommon to have 30+ at many of them.

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Last week my GF and I were in St Martin. She knew I wanted to go to Club O. so we went. She had gone topfree on the beach before (briefly with her BFF) but this was her first time in a nudist environment. So she was taken aback a little when I tossed my swimshorts and joined the rest of the crowd. But not one to waste an opportunity, she nonetheless hesitantly took off her top and sat back quietly.

  • That could have been it for the day; but some friendly nudists sitting next to us started chatting with her. Again, she was initially taken aback that these completely nude people were starting conversations with her. But soon enough she started relaxing and enjoying the bit of conversation. She turned to me and whispered that she was actually amazed that she was topless, talking with nude people; and on top of that she was really getting comfortable with it!

As her self-consciousness started fading, I proposed we go for a swim. We headed into the warm water...and next thing I knew she was holding her bottoms in one hand! We swam for a little while; and when came time to return to our chairs, I fully expected her to put her bottoms back on, but he just walked out still holding them! We arrived and she just tossed them smilingly before drying off. She spent our last moments nude on the beach before heading out to dinner.This was her first time ever being a nudist.
  1. Ironically, my ex's first time was very similar. Hesitant first steps...until nudists started talking to her. The initial "shock" was replaced by relaxation. My ex began her day clutching to her clothes; and ended it completely nude chatting with the manager.

Maybe there is something to be said about making the first time social rather than isolated. I've seen many first-timers encounter friendly nudists; and subsequently find the "inspiration" to be nude. You just have to findthe right crowd of people.

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Maybe there is something to be said about making the first time social rather than isolated. I've seen many first-timers encounter friendly nudists; and subsequently find the "inspiration" to be nude. You just have to findthe right crowd of people.There absolutely is at least for some people. In the late 90s my wife and I were going to Grand Lido Negril in Jamaica and I asked if we could stay on the nude side. She said okay but I was not to bother her and she was not going to participate. While there we met a great group of people and were having a blast. Two days into the trip I was playing volleyball in the pool nude and she was in the nearby hot tub talking with some of the people we had met. She got up and left, I thought she was just going to the restroom. Instead, she went to the room and lost the swimsuit and walked back to the pool area nude. That was the last we saw of the suit. Since then we have gone on other trips to resorts and she periodically goes with me to Laguna Del Sol. In April we are going to Cypress Cove in Florida! (Can't wait). She's not a full-time nudist like I am but is not shy does wander the house nude at times and does understand the freedom and ultimate relaxation of going to a nude resort. She even says that the people are awesome and so much more friendly at the nude resorts and they are the ones that convinced her.

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RE: First social nudism experience

Last week my GF and I were in St Martin. She knew I wanted to go to Club O. so we went. She had gone topfree on the beach before (briefly with her BFF) but this was her first time in a nudist environment. So she was taken aback a little when I tossed my swimshorts and joined the rest of the crowd. But not one to waste an opportunity, she nonetheless hesitantly took off her top and sat back quietly.That could have been it for the day; but some friendly nudists sitting next to us started chatting with her. Again, she was initially taken aback that these completely nude people were starting conversations with her. But soon enough she started relaxing and enjoying the bit of conversation. She turned to me and whispered that she was actually amazed that she was topless, talking with nude people; and on top of that she was really getting comfortable with it!As her self-consciousness started fading, I proposed we go for a swim. We headed into the warm water...and next thing I knew she was holding her bottoms in one hand! We swam for a little while; and when came time to return to our chairs, I fully expected her to put her bottoms back on, but he just walked out still holding them! We arrived and she just tossed them smilingly before drying off. She spent our last moments nude on the beach before heading out to dinner.This was her first time ever being a nudist.Ironically, my ex's first time was very similar. Hesitant first steps...until nudists started talking to her. The initial "shock" was replaced by relaxation. My ex began her day clutching to her clothes; and ended it completely nude chatting with the manager.Maybe there is something to be said about making the first time social rather than isolated. I've seen many first-timers encounter friendly nudists; and subsequently find the "inspiration" to be nude. You just have to findthe right crowd of people.Nudony that is excellent! The part I didn't like was you being in St. Martin without us.

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