I use to think so until I was in a drunk talk with my brother..he said one night at collage him and good friend went on a double date.guy had steady girlfreind and he just picked up one.. they winded up back in dormroom and played nakid twister.he said it was fun but was surprised freind had one that hung to his knees.. he said girls must love that. He said I wish I had a normal size cause it don't get that hard and alot of times it hurt the girl he was with and he felt bad.. I got the surprise penis hanging out it's small but when it's hard it's hard and gets to be around 6 to 6and half.. but I wish it didn't Shurl up when just hanging out.plus I'm shy and have no freinds who join me.
Have had a number of Balck GFs in my life- the last 15 years only 3-but all enjoyed me in bed ONLY BECAUSE I was 6-7" in length. I have found it is my girth that they enjoy- told that can relax knowing their kidneys and liver, spleen and stomach were not going to get beat-up. So in my own mind if SIZE matters, "GIRTH" is the new HUNG. (ALSO, a shorter erection makes a lot more CONSTANT contact with the Male's pubic mound to the entire Female's genital area, a Male with a 9" crank is going to have a hard time with that,..., well she probably will at least!
I am 55 years old now, and all my live I thought size matters a lot.
Because my penis is about 1 inch when soft and maybe 5.5 inches hard, I felt ashamed and never dared to be seen naked.
When I divorced a coupe of months ago, I started exploring nudism by going to a smaal nudist beach. At first I felt really uncomfortable, laying on my back with my small penis. Walking to the water felt terrible, coming out was even worse because it shrunk even more.
After a while, I noticed that some men had way bigger penisses, but nobody seemed to care. Not about their good looking penis and also not about my small one. It made me feel a bit more confident.
Somewhere around my 4th visit there, it was a bit crowded. We were laying side-by-side with less than a meter between each other. It was funny because I noticed we were male/female/male/female/male/female/male/female in a row. But maybe even more fun was my discovery that I forgot that I was naked. I felt normal between all those naked people.
So that's about penis size and being seen.
About penis size and intercourse. I occasionally have sex with a female friend. We are experimenting and discovering.
Perhaps the most interesting was to find out that my 5.5 inch shouldn't be more for her, because then it would either discomfort her, or I had to be careful not to go to deep.
And, while experimenting, we found a very pleasant spot for her, her g-spot. She has a sensitive g-spot and I only need maybe 2 inches and a good "angle" (my penis is curved up, so it's perfect to reach the g-spot). Rubbing my glans on her g-spot with only 2 inches inside is perhaps the greatest way for her to get to her orgasm. Then going deeper only during her orgasm to extend the feeling is enough. And then again my 5.5 inches is perfect.
And even only going for her clitoris can get her into an orgasm, so only 1 inch. ;)
So, bottom line, on a nudist beach, size doesn't matter at all, and the first few inches inside a woman is the best place to pleasure her.
It's not about quantity, but about quality.
I think for some things size does matter. My wife was the one who first confirmed that for me when she would talk about the first guy she had sex with. She commented that his penis was so small that condoms would come off him during intercourse, and that his penis couldnt reach that area inside her vagina to satisfy her sexual needs. In fact when she first had sex with me, we couldn't get my penis into her vagina because it was too painful. Eventually she realized that her hymen was still partially in tact and even though she had had sexual with the other guy many times she was essentially still a virgin when it came to me penetrating her. She was always happy with how my penis filled her up, and she even had to be cautious when she rode me because the head of my Penis would hit her cervix and cause a lot of pain (but she accepted the pain because she loved the feeling of me all the way in her).
Now that were in our 60s she has a different issue, and that is her vagina has lost some of its elasticity and now my penis is too big and it causes her too much pain during intercourse. We havent had sex in over 2 years because of that. She tries to tolerate the pain to satisfy me, but its just too much for her.
I have recently explored my bi-side and give and received oral sex with other guys. I have always considered myself to be on the small side, but every one of them that has sucked my penis has commented that it is big and thick and they all enjoyed sucking it. For the record, Im about 4.5 inches long when soft, and about 5.5-6 inches long when hard.
Size does matter, but it doesnt always matter. Young women in high school and college were not experienced in my day, and my 4.5 erect penis wasnt an issue. Fast forward to women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond, and women already know that a little penis will in no way give them the pleasure theyve felt from a big one. They would sooner do without intercourse than endure a small man huffing and puffing trying to be a good fuck, while she feels next to nothing.



