have autism looking for nudist friends actually near me

Post #1 jamieg25Textile

so far different nudist sites turn out being controlled by exhibitionists and other perverts and all i want is people like me that use nudity as a way to just be comfortable
with autism people at times like to always accuse before getting facts so need to find friends not doing that - most times it is ok for others to do but turned to be some kind of crime for me to do the exact same thing you did 5 seconds ago
i want friends that know autism and things not always what people want it to be and stay away from the pervert crowd - i do have to watch people to find what things is ok and what things not ok and people think i can just automatically know stuff but autism never work that way

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Post #2 jamieg25Barefoot

RE: have autism looking for nudist friends actually near me

by jamieg25Textile

well if you think tis one is going to be different they got there preves too. listen saying autism like it is some badge of honor. nope it is not i know people like you do not want to do anything like me. there arepervertsand and the link here. and the other nudist sites look like there 1991.one word of advice stop using autism has an excuse mycousinhave it bad you can type and write so better then most poeple.autism is not used as excuse
only the ones that think disability is a choice think explaining why things is can be a excuse as you call it
guess you are one of those that think people can choose to ignore disability and cured

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Post #3 SteveinKonaSuper Nudist

RE: have autism looking for nudist friends actually near me

by SteveinKonaTextile

Jamie, bishopgummybeartn is wrong, but I'm not responding to argue with him - just talk to you. I understand that you mentioned your autism in part by way of explaining why you were putting your fears into your first posting. There is nothing wrong with that. There are people on here who aren't going to understand, and you have already met a couple of them in this exchange. Don't bother responding to them. They are not the people you came onto the site to meet.
It's possible that you'll get friend requests and communications that are sexual and inappropriate, but - certainly for the male members at least - it's not that common, probably less than on the other sites you've used, and not generally really explicit - except occasionally in the chatroom, where there are monitors ready to ban anyone who gets out of line. It's a good, well-managed site. Probably the worst thing about it is that the forum tends to erupt into flame wars - not every thread, but often enough. Best advice - and I've sometimes violated it ;) - is to stay out of those.
There are no flame wars in the chat room, so I hear, because the monitors nip at the first sign of rudeness - the "be nice" rule there is for real.

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Post #4 the_nude_topherUndies OnlyChris The Nude Topher Stupidity might be genetic but ignorance should be painful!

RE: have autism looking for nudist friends actually near me

by the_nude_topherTextile

Nait, .Nait, congratulations on finally getting a diagnosis. Now that you know you are a "high functioning autistic" it will enable you to make more sense out of your situation, yourself, and the world. Over the past few years of being involved in naturism by attending events, visiting venues, and participating in online communities I have noticed that there is a very high correlation between autism and nudism. I have met many people on the autism spectrum who enjoy being clothesfree.Are there what you call perverts on this, other naturist sites, and at nudist venues? Without a doubt, and sadly yes. However, the majority of the pervs that I have encountered are straight and not gay. In fact, the nudist venues are trying (with varying degrees of success) to avoid becoming havens for (heterosexual) swingers.Perhaps I read the tone of your post incorrectly. But, I feel that you have painted the entire gay community with a brush for "using you." But, upon re-reading your post it seems that you were not so much "used" as you thought you were gay and now you feel you are more straight/bi (as per your profile). That being said you were unsure of your gender attraction and this is understandable, common, and alright. However you can't blame the entire "gay community" for your misclassifying yourself. With all due respect Nait, in the end we must all take responsibility for ourselves.

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