MY WIFE AND I ARE MEMBERS OF A NUDIST RESORT IN MISSOURI AND WHEN WE WERE ON OUR SECOND VISIT WE WERE IN THE POOL AND MY WIFE WAS BEHIND ME WITH HER ARMS AROUND MY CHESTAND SOMEONE CAME UP AND SAID WE COULD NOT DO THAT HERE. I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU DONT GO PLAYING WITH EACH OTHERS GENITALS OR HAVING SEX AT THE POOL. BUT THE FEELING I GOT WAS THAT I CANT EVEN TOUCH MY WIFE. IF WE WERE AT A PUBLIC CLOTHING REQUIRED POOL WEARING SWIM SUITS AND SHE HAD HER ARMS AROUND ME AND SHE WAS BEHIND BE PRESSED AGAINST ME, NOBODY WOULD CARE. SO WHY AT A NUDIST POOL SURROUNDED BY NUDISTS WHO ARE PROMOTING THE FREEDOM OF BEING NUDE IS THIS A PROBLEM? OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT ABOUT SEX NOR DO WE WANT IT TO BE BUT IT SEEMS THAT NUDISTS ARE AFRAID OF SHOWING AFFECTION OF ANY KIND BECAUSE IT'S SOMEHOW OFFENSIVE. WHAT DO YOU THINK/
If you're talking about 40 Acres, I've been there. Possibly the person was unable to see what was happening beneath the water and was just taking a preemtive strike.
BTW, using all caps is akin to YELLING online. You might want to disengage your caps lock.
I see nothing wrong with pda's myself. If you're kissing, cuddling, or hugging, I see no harm or shame it it. My late wife although not a nudist was not a pda person in her later yrs. But as long as your intentions are directed n an innocent way go for and show her you love for her!!
I would like to weigh in on this...I think we should always be affectionate towards those we love and care for no matter where we are. As I have said in previous posts, I can remember when younger on nude beaches watching my parents hug and kiss and even witnessed my dad with a partial erection for my mother. Some would say it was unacceptable but I have to say when, as a youngster, I inquired about it, my parents took all the time in the world to explain why I witnessed what I did. My parents totally loved each other and I wouldn't have an understanding that I have had it not been for that.
Of course it isn't appropriate to have full on sex in public...that behavior is for other communities...but showing your loved one affection is totally acceptable. Each and everytime I see my girlfriends beautifully formed body and essence I get aroused because I am totally in love with her. She is my heart and soul and I'd be crazy not to appreciate her. With that said...by no means is it every acceptable to be fully erect or aroused in a nudist setting. But I think, at least I hope, we all can agree cuddling and admiring our mates and loving them for them is a great thing and in this crazy world maybe showing affection, love, caring and tenderness toward others might not be a bad thing...maybe it will catch on?
When we're at a nudist outing with our friends, a lot of hugging is going on. Arrivals and departures are high lighted by hugging most of the women and maybe a little peck on the cheek.A warm handshake is reserved for the guys and even a bear hug for some of them. Because there is such greatcamaraderie in the group, most people look forward to this. I believe some women would feel slighted if they didn't get a hug. There is one big exception to this rule. There is very little huggingwhen it comes tomy wife. When my wife is involved, many other emotions come into play and we want to avoid these. What can I say? I'm Italian and I love the ladies and I love my wife, but not in the same ways.
After reading most of the posts on this, I have to agree that the world would be a better place if we all hugged a little more, I enjoy walking with my wife holding her hand, nude or clothed, like MRs bunny said to start this, what signs of PDA you do dressed are usually appropriate nude, although not readily available in everyone, common sense should prevail in these matters.
My wife loves to cuddle and kiss anytime anywhere, whether we are alone or in company, clothed or naked.
So when we are at a nudist venue, she acts the same way as do I. If the mood arises we kiss and cuddle, be it on land or in the water, be it a pool or an open water venue.
As others have mentioned displaying affection varies from country to countryTake Vietnam for example : its common to see people of same sex couples (with neither of them being gay or lesbian sexually) walking down the streets holding hands. Indicating a non sexual platonic friiendship.
Its also rare to see mixed couples doing the same unless they are non Asian. Although I see the younger generation mixed couples areore open to showing affection to each other in public.
And cuddling as a greeting FORGET IT. Its just not done between strangers and not in public between mixed couples.
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