Thanks, JackieFor getting us back on track, here. You'll notice that I pretty much don't engage with the clique.As for your comments, I certainly appreciate that you and your husband have vowed to remain faithful and monogamous. More importantly, I appreciate that you don't condemn others for making different choices. This is the type of discussion I was hoping to have when I started this thread.
People are not condemning your way of life, we just don't think it to be appropriate on here. I hope you manage to have a long and contented marriage, but we are not interested in your sexual adventures.
Some of us ( OK, me ) might appreciate if someone could summarize the 260 posts or so, and post a concise list of which posts were actually on topic.Could save some of us ( OK, me ) days of filtering this bull ourselves.
The impossible can be done, but it does take some time.
It is totally pathetic that there appears to be a "clique" of members who take the greatest delight in denigrating other members that post in the forums......this particular "clique" take for whatever reason an enjoyment in placing the stick in the pot and stirring it vigorously.....they fail to to comment logically to a post, however they do indeed use a vast amount of energy and time in hurling abuse at others......I think it would be prudent to state quite firmly that when this little entourage decides to play their childish games that we should simply ignore their post's. No response = no smart "A" come backs.....I am sure they would eventually become somewhat bored with the lack of response and hopefully fade away into nothingness!To respond to the original post......what works for one couple does not always work for others, my husband and I have always been of the belief that our marriage vows are sacred, and that includes remaining faithful to each other sexually morally and honestly...it is what we believe in, we know others decide for whatever reason to lead their married lives in a different way and that is THEIR choice, we, that is my husband and I may not condone it but nor shall we condemn it...it is after all their choice.
Just to be clear Jackie, I don't care who is doing who, but I do object to this subject being posted on what is supposed to be strictly a nudist site. This is the second time the OP has brought this up, why would he have thought there would be a different reaction than the first time? I don't care what his sex life entails, but neither do I want to read about it in here. If he's been lurking here for any length of time, he knows full well about this site's counterpart, trueswingers, where he can chronicle their exploits in detail if he wants. He continues to post about his marital activities here either because of some psychological need for approval from strangers, or just to stir up the pot.