I was chatting to a gentleman and mentioned that there are too many guys that all they wanna do is "fuck my wife". I was banned. Seems it is automatic and comments can be taken out of context. Being banned doesn't hurt my feelings, it's just read the previous comment to see if my comment was appropriate . ( happened about 6 PM ( EST ) on Feb 3 )
"Sexually interested" in your wife, maybe... but even that amounts to an accusation that sorta violates chat's "be nice" rule, although if nicely phrased, the comment might pass. The F-word, well that pretty much nails it.
If you have a cam on, it needs to be on you. If you don't want to be on cam, turn it off.
From the rules:
No Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please.
If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it.
John aka cobeachbum
Same here I just got banned for showing my bare chest. I wonder how you put a grievance against a mod.It was already said: if you are using your cam its for your face, otherwise dont use it.
As far as I can see, the rules say that your face has to be on cam, not that ONLY your face may be on cam - I took that to mean that, quite reasonably, it's not a place for crotch-only shots of people masturbating etc, (which is what I'd expect, it's not what nudism/naturism is about and there are plenty of sex-cam sites for that.)
But interpreting "face on cam" as "ONLY face on cam"? On a nudist site? Perhaps it should just say that clothing is mandatory in chat?
I mean, I don't use the chat, and I fully appreciate that many who've been banned were probably in fact being obnoxious in some way, and that some might not even have realised it, and that modding is always a thankless task, but I find it hard to believe that ALL of the people talking about being banned for having their shoulders on show or something were up to no good - I mean y'wouldn't whine about it in public if you were flouting the rules, would you? Or mebbe you would, I dunno.
I reckon I'll just avoid the chat altogether. Either everyone on it is an over-entitled, self-regarding perv constantly pushing their luck, or it's basically nudist-unfriendly. Either way , it seems like a potential source of stress I can do without. If I wanna chat nude on cam with nudists, I guess I'll do it somewhere off the nudists site, I've always enjoyed irony. Most of the folk I've met on here so far don't use the chat, either, so I suppose it doesn't especially affect my decision to become a paying member or not - to be honest, the limited payment options are far more significant, for me - I'd have paid up already if PayPal was an option. (And yeah, I know they take a cut and they're not the world's loveliest people, but payment processors I've never used before are a big barrier for me, I'm guessing I'm possibly not alone in that, dunno.)
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