clothes-optional friends n friendcesses 4 fun-only days/nights out? Hah!

If a guy takes a girl out it has2B about sex doesn't it?
If he doesn't go with the intention of trying it on, then:
.....he ain't a man!
.....she feels insulted!
Ever heard of true love?
Like a kid loves his mom; like Gran n Granpa when they can't "do it" anymore?
And what is love and what is friendship? Are they that different?
Can't I hug a bloke without being called gay?
If I kiss a ladyfriend, does that mean we are no longer friends; it must be something more?
What if I said I would like2 meet female naturists 2go out and have fun with, all the "D"s, dine, drink, dance? Am I a liar really trying to trick her into bed?
Then take a look at me. So you say, "yeh, well, you're different!" Why am I different? Why can't other guys be the same as me? Or other females? Why are their genitalia more dominant than their brains?
I go out most weekends in Hastings, live rock pubs, nightclubs, parties. Never once have I seen it debase into a mating rush. Yeh, I tell ladies how beautiful they are, they tell me they love my dress sense n dancing. Women dance right up close with me, sometimes raunchy, but it's just play, never goes further. We are just friends n friendcesses having fun. Big kids really!
So why is it naturists have to either:
.....pair off as couples
.....or, stay in male or female only groups?
And don't tell me it ain't like that, coz it is!
Don't kid me naturism ain't about sex, the mating game. We can't even go anywhere unless there is a 50/50 gender split, with the residue cast out.
What is the singularly only facet of life that depends on an even gender split? Answer please?
I and people like me are wasting our lives trying to have simple fun and form normal social relationships in this myopic lifestyle.
Look, I happen 2B more comfortable in female company, away from the domineering testo-rush of male groups. So I am looking4 females naturist friendcesses in the southeast UK 2go outing, rocking, drinking n clubbing with. I have sent messages2 females on TruNu and other sites making my honest intentions clear. I am still waiting!
.......and I am going purple holding my breath!

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