Newbie saying bye....
Hi,
I am a paid & certified member. I have 75 friends. I know half are dirty, male perverts, pretending to be sexy young girls, and I actually know 0 people from this list. I joined as a curious male, in the world of nudity, wanting to share experiences, but have found nothing.My certified, paid, account is now available, for free. "Should help the pervs", who wants it? I no longer wish to come here. There is no point. I hope this is not the same experience for all, but this is how I feel.
So, if you want a paid, certified account, (my pic's and details deleted) tell me, it's yours.
It's very sad when people feel this way, but most of your problems come from choosing or accepting the wrong people for your friend list. There are some genuine nudists on here, albeit very small in number. You just have to be more careful with whom you befriend. From looking at your list of friends, it is of no surprise that you are having a bad experience.
Do not accept a friend request from anyone who .......
Has very little or no information in profile.
Is not certified
Has profile set to private
Does not have photos to view.
If you follow these rules, it will greatly reduce the number of fakes.
I joined this site in November 2011. I read thousands of posts in the forums noting the names of those that make the posts. Over about a week I had an idea who were passionate about the lifestyle and who were cyber bullies. It was difficult to determine who the stalkers are, they do not make entries, they prowl the profiles and chat rooms harvesting pictures or taunting the ladies.
In December 2011 I certified. I would like my one wife for life to join me here. If and when she does I will pay for life memberships for both of us.
We are judged by the company we keep. Many will read your profile before accepting you as a friend. They may well look at your friends list as well.
Bob
Give me your address by PM and I'll send you a teaspoon of cement so you can harden TF up.
And this kind of reply is typical of the none constructive comments from people who are hell bent on destroying this sight. It's no wonder so many people don't want to participate in chat or forums.
Ok I'm sorry your experience has soured you on the site.
I see that after two weeks your profile is still active and you logged in 3 days ago. So you have not left yet. From the fact that you have 2 posts to the Forums tells me that you have spent your time reading but not writing or asking questions. Like most things in life this site is what you make ofit.... for you. If it does not spoon feed you and if that is what you want then you have made the right decision in moving on. I have met some really great folks from this site and we have made it a point of getting together once a month at a local Spa to spend the day talking and enjoying the social aspects of being a nudist. If you search a bit you can find a group near you to enjoy the same but it will take some work on your part if that is what you want.
Yea I get hit on and get friend request from folks that only want to see the photos I have reserved for my friends to see but... hey its the internet. You get to say NO and the choice is yours to make not thiers. Bottom line... use the site, justdon't let the trolls use you. Enjoy your day.... Nude when possible
Like most things in life this site is what you make ofit.I have met some really great folks from this site and we have made it a point of getting together once a month at a local Spa to spend the day talking and enjoying the social aspects of being a nudist. If you search a bit you can find a group near you to enjoy the same but it will take some work on your part if that is what you want. Yea I get hit on and get friend request from folks that only want to see the photos I have reserved for my friends to see but... hey its the internet. You get to say NO and the choice is yours to make not theirs.Bottom line... use the site, justdon't let the trolls use you. Enjoy your day.... Nude when possible
Sailer is absolutely right about that :-)
Hi,I am a paid & certified member. I have 75 friends. I know half are dirty, male perverts, pretending to be sexy young girls, and I actually know 0 people from this list. I joined as a curious male, in the world of nudity, wanting to share experiences, but have found nothing.My certified, paid, account is now available, for free. "Should help the pervs", who wants it? I no longer wish to come here. There is no point. I hope this is not the same experience for all, but this is how I feel.So, if you want a paid, certified account, (my pic's and details deleted) tell me, it's yours.
Nudism is all about getting naked. Seeing others naked and being seen by others naked. So when someone asks to see your penis, it would be a double standard to be upset. If they are rude about it then that is ground to be offended.
It's a hard thing though to draw that line. The one where we like to stand that says "we think nudity is great even though the rest of the world finds it offensive" yet then draw another line that says "I am offended by sexuality". Seems to me that often people ask the world to accept their ways while choosing to not accept other people's ways.
Just food for thought. Ps, sensuality and sexuality aren't evil, but I also cannot stand disrespect for others so by all means explore and discuss but be mindful of other people's comfort zone.
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