OK. You are in your home. - You are a woman. - You are drinking with another woman. - She asks you to get naked. - Can I watch?
I am female she is a very good friend of mine, Its not a sexual thing at all you muppet. and NO you could not watch as there would be nothing to see apart from two old friends chatting.
LOL - I was joking. Lighten up - Do you really think you have a problem we have to worry about.
Tell her global warming made you get naked.
No failure there. She gave you permission. That was a big step for her...and you. She obviously found out that you are a nudist. Did you tell her? It did not upset her. Maybe it made her curious so she said you could. Your place could have been chilly that night. Next time she comes over, you can ask her if she was serious. Tell her you did not go nude then because you were not sure if she was just being polite. You can continue by saying you would and that she can join you at any time if she would like. Let us know how this progresses.
She knows I am now did finally admit to her and she has been great.
Thanks for the constructive advice.
:)
You're welcome. I hope you have fun. I have dropped hints with a friend. She hasn't taken the bait yet. Good thing for me is I am very patient. I have given her a back massage. I am OK with the slow-but-steady approach like you.
After meeting my very good friend for a few beverages in the pub the other night, we went back to my house for a few after closing, she knows I dont wear anything in the house if im on my own.After a while chatting she looked at me saying, If you want to strip off I dont mind its your house do what you like.I so wanted to but couldn't do it, No idea why. Im thinking that maybe as it would be the first time with someone there maybe.Anyone else had this happen or is it just me, being a boob.
hay I like to be nude to when I am home alone but if my friend had noproblem with me being nude I wood but some of my friends think I am crazy because I love being nude there was one time I when to party and I was playing adrinking game next thing I now I was nude at this party and the host was so cool he get naked to so don't be scared my be some one like to be free to
I was actually at a friends place and she told me I could get nude if I wanted.....Jo doesn't care if I do get nude at someone elses as she knows where I end up. I actually did get nude there and she respected me for it.....I also do nude handyman work ......If someone non nude comes over, I get dressed out of respect for them......
As I said before, I was dropping a lot of hints to a friend. A problem with a canude trip caused me to find a partner. I decided, with high trepidation, to ask her to go with me. She was more interested that *I* would be nude! I guess I portray a conservative image so evisioning me being a nudist is kind of shocking. Once she recovered from the shock, she agreed quickly. I was glad that I actually went through with telling her. My hints were NOT working. It took a lot of courage but was worth it.With this in mind, I was riding bikes with another lady and mentioned that I was running a 5K at a resort. Yes, I resorted to dropping hints. She did not bite or notice the mentioning of resort. I decided to not continue along the hint path and swallowed my nervousness the next week and brought up the subject again. She did help by mentioning running on the beach is fun. When I mentioned it would be 3 loops within the resort, she asked which resort it was. I knew I could have weenied out and just say Whispering Pine Resortbut decided to summon my courage and say where you could work on your all over tan. Her reply was "What? You mean it is a noodie resort?" We had a very spirited conversation about it and nudism in general.Now with these 2 successes, I have to worry about not getting too confident and try to tell someone who is not ready to hear it or an inappropriate person. But I think it will be easier each time.
Let me get this straight. You are in your home. - You are a man. - You are drinking with a woman. - She asks you to get naked. - I don't see the problem.
Yeah, you probably missed out on the opportunity to introduce her into the lifestyle :-(
Hawk
Let me get this straight. You are in your home. - You are a man. - You are drinking with a woman. - She asks you to get naked. - I don't see the problem.
Yeah, you probably missed out on the opportunity to introduce her into the lifestyle :-(
Hawk
I am finding this scenario increasingly hard to fully understand. Having a drink with a person who is not a naturist who you have recently told that you are a naturist. So far so good. Then your non-naturist friend says words to the effect "Well get naked for me then!" What motive and why should you oblige? If they are into life drawing and have suggested you posing for them then perhaps. If they have at least hinted that they may get naked too but need some encouragement then may be perhaps. If they simply want to see you naked then why should you indulge their request unless you are simply an exhibitionist. Many naturists have no qualms about being naked on a beach with non-naturist friends but being effectively asked to prove your naturist belief by getting naked on request is mere entertainment.
I see this type of scenario as essentially sexual which may be what you want and they may also want it in which case you would most likely undress each other and let events take their natural course. This has little to do with the naturist life style and everything to do with what consenting couples do in private.
I had a forum buddy who is female and yes I am male, this lady I never actually met but she used to comment on the many nude pictures men posted on the forum and never once posted a nude picture of herself. I used to exchange emails and chat about various things. In one of her emails she mentioned that she was a keen cyclist and had met a fellow lady cyclist whom she confided in her naturist beliefs, this lady confided that she was in fact gay. Well one day after a long bike ride they went to her house for a coffee. While my friend was sitting down her friend went to make the coffee and returned with the coffee but stark naked completely unexpected. Her friend had completely misjudged the reaction and they never saw each other again,now that was a "Naked Failure".
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