RE: Naked failure

NudeJohnny, You must not be a bike rider otherwise you would not that any vibrations on a bike are not they same as you receive from a vibrator. You do NOT get aroused from it.Freecospirit, sounds like there is a big communication issue. It could have been that your friend's friend was just trying to make your friend more comfortable by being nude. She may have assumed that your friend is comfortable nude so she would not mind. However, she probably should have mentioned it first. Or maybe not.How could you possibly know "You do NOT get aroused from it" ? You been peekin in my pants?

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NudeJohnny, You must not be a bike rider otherwise you would not that any vibrations on a bike are not they same as you receive from a vibrator. You do NOT get aroused from it.Freecospirit, sounds like there is a big communication issue. It could have been that your friend's friend was just trying to make your friend more comfortable by being nude. She may have assumed that your friend is comfortable nude so she would not mind. However, she probably should have mentioned it first. Or maybe not.How could you possibly know "You do NOT get aroused from it" ? You been peekin in my pants?I rode bikes for many years, It did NOT get me aroused, BUT many a woman enjoyed the vibes.

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I will begin asking the women I ride with if it does anything for them. For me, nothing.

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Wow, unbelievable. You my friend, choked big time.

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Let me get this straight.You are in your home. - You are a man. - You are drinking with a woman. - She asks you to get naked. - I don't see the problem.
Funny !!! Except she was "a very good friend"

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Man, I hope you have had her back by now!!!

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Let me get this straight.You are in your home. - You are a man. - You are drinking with a woman. - She asks you to get naked. - I don't see the problem.
Funny !!! Except she was "a very good friend""Friends with benefits"
"Acquaintances with advantages"
"Colleagues who copulate"
"Partners with perks"
"Friends with amorphous and indefinable benefits"
~Kate Wales (Selma Blair) - "Anger Management"

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I haven't had that happen, but I can't say I would have responded any differently. If it seems right it seems right, if it doesn't it doesn't. I wouldn't feel bad about it either way.

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You were just trying to keep things comfortable between you both. There is nothing wrong with that.

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I don't call it a fail - just possibly a little insecurity being around another clothed person.
I too am not sure how I would react today but I'm sure I wouldstrip off. (older, more confident possibly) However, I do recall one occasion quite a few years ago (about 30 years ago) whilst holidaying in Sweden seeing one of my wife's University friends who originated from Scotland and now lives there, we took a trip to a nearby but reasonablysecluded lake.
She asked if I wished to take a dip in the lake (it was early in the season and would have been fairly chilly) I said that I didn't have any swimwear with me (though we did have towels to sit on) and she basically replied, "This is Sweden - no worries about that!" But whilst I considered going for it and having that quick dip, my wife's look and shake of the head quickly discounted that idea.
Sometimes I wonder what she would have said if I had stripped off then. Ifmy wife's friend had stripped off, I would certainly have joined her, despite MOH's looks.

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