Want to try nudism
My wife and I want to try visiting a nudist resort, but I am a little nervous about it. My main concern is getting aroused and trying to find a way to hide it. While I'm not interested in anything sexual, I am prescribed testosterone and it is very easy for me to get aroused, often for no reason. It's almost like when I went through puberty. Everything I have read about the issue says not to worry about it because it's not likely to happen in a non sexually charged environment, but I am afraid it may just happen randomly in my case. Does anyone have any advice?
My wife and I want to try visiting a nudist resort, but I am a little nervous about it. My main concern is getting aroused and trying to find a way to hide it. While I'm not interested in anything sexual, I am prescribed testosterone and it is very easy for me to get aroused, often for no reason. It's almost like when I went through puberty. Everything I have read about the issue says not to worry about it because it's not likely to happen in a non sexually charged environment, but I am afraid it may just happen randomly in my case. Does anyone have any advice?
From the AANR website FAQ
Do men get visibly excited?
Not often. Nudist clubs are far less sexually charged than places where bikinis, thongs, or other provocative clothing, are worn. On the rare occasion where this occurs, simply don a towel, turn over, or take a quick dip in the pool.
As a female totally new to this, something I've often wanted to try but until now too nervous to, mainly because no one close to me is interested in naturism/nudism.....my view on wether men would get an erection or not, is that erections are totally natural, & happen, I imagine, in all sorts of situations, & I'm sure many of the men have xperienced them while in company with other kindred spirits...if it happens it happens, I wouldn't be offended at all......
In your situation I'd recommend visiting a CO beach rather than a resort first. This is because the atmosphere is more relaxed and there is no pressure to go nude unless you are ready. There is something magical about being naked outdoors, it simply feels great to have total body freedom. Even if you wear the briefest of swimsuits simply removing it may be a simple action but once you have overcome any initial nerves you will almost certainly feel good.
On a CO beach you will probably notice couples where only one partner is nude, males are normally less modest but not always. Do not be surprised if one of you feels ready and the other doesn't. In a resort almost everyone will be nude which may be daunting if you are not quite ready to go public; in a resort however there are unlikely to be any textiles.
Some people try home nudism first as a couple which can help but to be honest it is nothing like being nude in public.