Hi toytina, at the risk of being misunderstood I'd like to respectfully disagree with your statement about a 'true nudist' not being aroused by the simple sight of a nude woman. Many people neglect to realize that a man is genetically pre-programmed to be stimulated by the female form, especially when nude. When a man sees a woman he finds attractive he may have a temporary moment of 'stimulated imagination' where he fancies himself with her which could result in an erection, or at least the beginning of one until he realizes what is happening and takes proper actions to subdue it, this does not necessarily mean he is a bad person. I do agree that it could be offensive if he were 'showing off' and I wouldn't condone that and that is where the discrepancy lies I believe, I believe it may be impossible to completely stop the 'temporary moment' but it is the 'true nudist' who will recognize the moment and take control to stop the thought process, at least until a later more appropriate time.
Hi all,
It's nice to see people challenging this assumption that the nudist population is partitioned into two black and white group - the first treating nudity as some unnaturally asexual "spiritual journey" and the others being "swingers" (by which people don't seem to mean the traditional definition of couples who like to share their sexual experiences with others; rather a generic terms for sex addicts who can't exercise any boundaries). I think that there are lots of grey areas in between - e.g. I've never had sex with other men and don't generally find them attractive, but I'm quite happy to be checked out by gay men even if they are erect or playing with themselves. It's only a problem for me if they are persistently asking for more than that (after I've politely declined their first advance).
I think'pre-cum' is nothing to worry about at all. In the same way that all men are liable to have an erection at an inconvenient time so too there is likely to be a display of moisture from time to time. It certainly happens to me and it doescause any embarrassment to me and seemingly not to anybody who witnesses it.GSussexMan
I find that when I'm in a nudist environment my libido switches off, so I could not get an erection even if I wanted to, unless caused by visual stimulation! The only times I've become aroused and erect on a nudist beach was on rare occasions when couples nearby have started to put on a "show"! I was turned on, but felt uneasy at the same time. I must admit, however, to enjoying sex on the beach on occasions when I have been invited by couples to join them in a threesome, behind bushes or windbreaks. Happy memories!
So I was on the nude beach today, and as soon as I dropped my pants a breeze picked up, and my penis almost immediately just started to go. At first I felt a little awkward as I was standing right in front of a group of people, but I just continued putting on my sunscreen and eventually it went back down. Really wasn't a big deal. It seems like each time I go, I get a little more comfortable.
Thanks for the charming story, Ross. I think we probably ought to designate a unit to measure progress in restraining tumescence in the male member.
I suggest it should be measured in CRUD's - Coefficient of Restraint of Urgent Desires.
Can anyone else come up with a witty acronym for this new unit?
Pamela
Great story Ross. I was on the beach the other day when a man new to nudism stripped off to show his tan tiles and an instant erection. He knew that every eye on the beach was on him as he slowly walked into the sea. No doubt he understood your earlier embarrassment. But he still had a semi when he came out of the freezing water. Only his balls had shrunk.Yet on another beach (another holiday) three of us spread sun lotion on each other - every part,just as you describe - and not a blink from the others on the beach. Maybe that was because we were three men. Itwas great fun massaging sun lotion into a friend and having them massage it into me, paying special attention to those parts needing extra protection.
I think we all must have experienced spontaneous arousal in nude social settings. I am thinking about when I was in my 20s and skinning dipping in some mountain pools with my spouse and a group of friends. My spouse was spread out on the rock below, and I remember how great she looked enjoying being nude soaking up the rays. When I spread my towel on a boulder above her and lay down to catch some rays, after an invigorating quick dip that turned my balls blue and my penis to a peanut. I noticed that above our female housemate had spread her towel on a rock above me and lay with her legs open with the sun shining right into her open legs no more than 10 or 12 feet away. This display seemed clearly for my eyes as I was the only one with that view. Even so, I was unused to such things, so her show for me both embarrassed and intrigued me. Not trying to be a voyeur, but also not one to turn away from an inviting view, I sit tole a peak here and there, and was fascinated by the fact that her labial folds were longer and much more pronounced than than my spouse's or other girlfriends I had observed up close. We before long, without realizing it, my peanut became a Texas-size dill pickle. So away I turned for awhile, but I couldn't will it down, so I gave in and lay back down on my back with penis erect lying on my belly to continue the show for awhile. I began to ooze from the tip and yearned for relief, but there was none, just her open legs and labia, my penis larger than life and and both of us soaking up the sun. All at once, she sat up, looked at me from between her legs and commented quietly and asked if I agreed that my spouse had "pretty little tithes". She smiled and nodded at seeing my arousal, as I continued to squirm with a mixture of embarrassment and pride. It finally got to be to much and I dove back into the mountain pool. I came back up with a peanut, blue balls and a yelp. Immediate problem solved but this experience did little to staunch myinterest in nude recreation!
So I was on the nude beach today, and as soon as I dropped my pants a breeze picked up, and my penis almost immediately just started to go. At first I felt a little awkward as I was standing right in front of a group of people, but I just continued putting on my sunscreen and eventually it went back down. Really wasn't a big deal. It seems like each time I go, I get a little more comfortable.
Thanks for the charming story, Ross. I think we probably ought to designate a unit to measure progress in restraining tumescence in the male member.
I suggest it should be measured in CRUD's - Coefficient of Restraint of Urgent Desires.
Can anyone else come up with a witty acronym for this new unit?
Pamela
I hope somebody works out the coefficient so that I can assess the erection that G had on the beach yesterday!!J SussexWoman
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