Thanks to all who have commented on this thread.
The reason I started it was because, when I'm in chat, I get PMed from various types.
As we are down as a couple, I always make sure that who ever PM's knows it's Stevie not Lorna chatting. This has the unusual effect of making some peoples computer blow up, because as soon as I tell them that they never say another word.
So I decided I would chat with my cam on.... this worked out, not better but differently, when my cam is on I get PMed (and friend requested) by men who's profile says they are Bisexual. I don't care what peoples sexuality are, but it's clear from my profile that I am in a relationship with a woman, and I haven't expressed any interest in blokes. One guy even asked me if I was home alone tonight, and when I said I wasn't he said that it was a shame. (wonder what he expected me to do if I was)
It seem that genuine people will read a profile, while others who are just looking for numbers send out requests to anyone.I have just had a request from someone who lives on the other side of the world, who is looking to meet up.???? Yeah, I'll take tomorrow off and meet you down the pub.I've also had some strange encounters in the chat room, two separate women (well they said they were) wanted me to describe my sex life in great detail.
I read profiles and look at photos for both responding to FR's, and potentially sending a FR. I want to know that people are genuine nudists, that is a main reason why I'm here, making contact with true nudists. It doesn't matter what their age, gender, location, relationship status or sexuality is, if they really are nudists there's a good chance I'll accept. If they have full nude photos in a variety of typical nudist settings, there is a better change of me confirming the FR than if they only have mirror shot selfies. I can usually tell if they've read my profile prior to sending a FR too.
My profile says I'm here on my own, but that I'm straight and in a long-term relationship. But as 'AusSkinnyDipper' says " I'm married and not looking for relationships or anything out of this
site, but I like so many others get requests from gay / bisexual blokes
who obviously want something more", gay/bisexual men can be a pain, many who contact me have obviously never bothered to read my profile, their FRs remain pending as a reference point to check back on should they make further contact about things that should clearly be of no interest to me, if they could only be bothered to read profiles! It says I'm not into mass collecting of friends. I have a mix of real and online nudist friends, the range of sexuality, age, gender, relationship status covers most combinations, none of that matters to me, if they're a nudist that is a good start for friendship, if we have other subjects in common that's better still.
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