This happened during a recent outdoor meet. Few of us went to a beach and stayed back. There were three of us in the room and we all shared a large bed. We all slept naked. I woke up at the middle of the night and found that the guy on my right side has come very close and cuddled me. His hand was around my chest...with my movement he also woke up and (perhaps) felt embarrassed, removed his hand and turned other way. This time I put my hand around him..pulled him gently towards me and hugged him tightly. When i woke up i saw I am grabbing his hard tool. He too woke up same time and we released and departed as I feel we both felt little awkward.
later I talked to him...asked him whether he felt bad...he said not bad but was surprised. Then I told him about cuddling, male bonding, physical touch as a sign of non sexual affection .
He was okay with it. We are still good friends.
Sometimes back I visited Stockholm for some office work and stayed at my friends place. He is a nudist as well so we both had quite a naked time. He was staying in a single bedroom apartment with only one small bed available, so we shared the bed. The first night we chatted a lot and talked till late night and then slept. I realized later in the night that he had cuddled me with his hand over me and his penis against my crack .I turned back and hugged him and slept. Later in the morning we talked about it and laughed. There was male bonding between us but no kind of sexual tension. I stayed with him for 3-4 days and we slept the same way cuddling each other.
My best male friend and I in high school were so unbelievably close, we shared a locker at school, and we talked on the phone for hours every night. We would hang out naked together, and go skinny dipping together, and it was awesome, such a great bonding experience. But he was raised very Christian, and when he guessed that I was gay he let go of our friendship. I had never tried to make a move on him, there was never anything sexual between us, we were just best friends who shared everything. And I often wish that he had been raised differently or our culture was different, then maybe we could have cuddled naked together, and maybe he wouldn't have abandoned our friendship. Years later he apologized to me and we're friends now, and I know he's still a nudist, but we haven't hung out naked again. I hope to someday! I love the feeling of being held by another man, and would love to have some platonic nudist friends I could do that with.
I hope you can have that naked bonding time with him, bud. Maybe invite him to a nude beach so the naked time is among other people. It'll help him get over his anxiety, maybe, of being naked with just you.
This happened during a recent outdoor meet. Few of us went to a beach and stayed back. There were three of us in the room and we all shared a large bed. We all slept naked. I woke up at the middle of the night and found that the guy on my right side has come very close and cuddled me. His hand was around my chest...with my movement he also woke up and (perhaps) felt embarrassed, removed his hand and turned other way. This time I put my hand around him..pulled him gently towards me and hugged him tightly. When i woke up i saw I am grabbing his hard tool. He too woke up same time and we released and departed as I feel we both felt little awkward.later I talked to him...asked him whether he felt bad...he said not bad but was surprised. Then I told him about cuddling, male bonding, physical touch as a sign of non sexual affection .He was okay with it. We are still good friends.
Thanks for sharing your story! :)
I've had been on the other side of that. I'm straight and have been a bit of a nudist.i have a buddy that's a couple years back opened up to me and said he was bisexual.which never really changed anything but one weekend we spent it dirnkin and hanging out,at somepiont we did end up running around bare ased naked after we got durnk and when we passed out in bed together we wound up cuddling. Next morning we woke up and it was likeit was no big deal even walked around with our morning wood but only because it was the reaction of our bodies.. it wasn't a sexual thing. To me it felt more of a bonding experience because i started finding myself opening up to him more. and him to me.. it actually made us closer as bros.chris
It has been many years for this to happen to me but still can remember just laying next to each other on the couch watching a movie. We were in under ware only and did change positions a couple times who was in the back and who was in front, I do miss cuddling so much and even being several years or more for at least a hug. I hope I get to experience these things again soon.The others in here that do and sometimes more often than others have a very special bond that should never be broken.
cuddling is a great thing no matter the circumstances. I have a totally str8 buddy who sometimes comes over to hot tub and spend the night and its well know between us two that cuddling is totally fine.
Thumbs up to him for knowing its good and healthy. And to you for being the friend that does not take advantage.
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