Moderators are desroying the chat room
Has anyone else who uses the true nudists chat room found that some of the moderators are bigots and totally intolerant of anyone hoding views contrary to their own
I was booted for compaining that they are like nudist fundamentalists
They can be rude and abusive but will totally deny anyome else having a different opinion
Some of them are destroying this site
Well, I have never noticed anything like this happening, and i'm on there pretty often.I do see them boot people for not following the chat room rules, but that is all. :/
Maybe you should read the rules and see if you did/said something against them. :)
Mods are very intolerant of People such as Dr Paul who come in the chat room and do things such as sending pm's to women on cam and asking them to stand so he can see there breasts and that it's ok because he is a plastic surgeon.
We have received several complaints about Dr Paul.
Yes, the most active mods do upset some people, like those who come in and with the main goal of upsetting people, or like to have the infamous " penis" cam on, that's where they place the cam on the floor or in a position that if someone clicks on their cam their Penis is the Main focus of the cam, Or they are playing with it.
By the way, as to whether some of the ladies were just making it up, three points, first, I doubt if several women over a period of time got together to make the same complaint about the same person, second, one of those women he said that too happens to be my wife and I saw the pm myself, third, when confronted about saying that in the room he did not deny it, he only tried to pass it off as a joke and we did not understand British humor. Problem with that is the other British people in the room didn't think it was funny either.
As to being Bigots, that's one of the favorite things they like to call the mods, that's very funny since we have gay men, gay women, straight guys, couple that state they are bi and some that say straight, and even some that will say they are swingers, who use the room, who chat in the room, who are well liked by the users or the room as well as the mods. That one just doesn't float.
All are welcome in the chat room, however, they should use common sense and at least attempt to have manners, and use the chat room for the reasons it was intended.
Mods are very intolerant of People such as Dr Paul who come in the chat room and do things such as sending pm's to women on cam and asking them to stand so he can see there breasts and that it's ok because he is a plastic surgeon. We have received several complaints about Dr Paul. Yes, the most active mods do upset some people, like those who come in and with the main goal of upsetting people, or like to have the infamous " penis" cam on, that's where they place the cam on the floor or in a position that if someone clicks on their cam their Penis is the Main focus of the cam, Or they are playing with it. By the way, as to whether some of the ladies were just making it up, three points, first, I doubt if several women over a period of time got together to make the same complaint about the same person, second, one of those women he said that too happens to be my wife and I saw the pm myself, third, when confronted about saying that in the room he did not deny it, he only tried to pass it off as a joke and we did not understand British humor. Problem with that is the other British people in the room didn't think it was funny either. As to being Bigots, that's one of the favorite things they like to call the mods, that's very funny since we have gay men, gay women, straight guys, couple that state they are bi and some that say straight, and even some that will say they are swingers, who use the room, who chat in the room, who are well liked by the users or the room as well as the mods. That one just doesn't float. All are welcome in the chat room, however, they should use common sense and at least attempt to have manners, and use the chat room for the reasons it was intended.
Wow! This pretty damning for Dr. Paul. Thanks for shedding light, Evan!
I do have one hopefully constructive suggestion. The owners should rewrite the rules, indicating the roles and responsibilities of the moderators. The rules were written at a time when there were two rooms (no longer the case) and no moderators. Perhaps a more extensive list of dos and don'ts would be helpful. Plus, the rules should come up on the entrance to the chat room, so that everyone must at least pass by them on the way into the room. Other sites have a two-step entry into chat, requiring that people agree to the rules before entering. Just saying.
Here is the only thing anyone needs to know about the chat room to keep them from being warned, muted, or removed. Act like you would in a public setting, act like you would at a nice nudist resort.
If someone went on a nude cruise do would they shout out loud every few minute " BI DAD", and nothing else? How about " GAY, Would like some Private Time" ? OH here is a good one , " Any Ladies want to Private Me".
Some how I don't think that if they saw a woman, or a man, go in to their cabin that they would run over and keep beating on the door , making comments, and refusing to stop.
How long would someone last doing those things at a nudist resort, or even a party with a non landed group?
Do you think at the mall, or when out to dinner they ask women to stand up so they can get a better look?
Here is another good one, how many do you think put a bag over there head so no one can see their face, then go for a walk with an erection, or "itching" their penis? NO? NO one would do that........well we don't expect them to do those things in the chat room either. Concerning the erections issue, my favorite is when they say they can't help it, they are always erect.......Please some one tell me what kind of job, besides working in porn, they anyone could keep if that was the case.
Basically come in and act like a guest at a resort, or party somewhere. Don't pester all the ladies, don't let the jokes get too off color, don't try to see if you can get people upset with the topic you chose to go on and on about, and then try to play innocent about it.
Just have some manners and TRY to be polite. If a mod, or a few people in the room ask you not to do something, listen to them. They are trying to help you and to make sure EVERYONE has an enjoyable time.
GENTLEMEN, SORRY FOR THE RANT IN THE FORUM,
Mods are very intolerant of People such as Dr Paul who come in the chat room and do things such as sending pm's to women on cam and asking them to stand so he can see there breasts and that it's ok because he is a plastic surgeon. We have received several complaints about Dr Paul.
Trust me I am a Dr? !!!! PMSL.