I am married, my wife is not a nudist, and does not wish to participate in nudist activities. She does not want to be included in a nudist website, and knows I have a membership on True Nudist. She knows I am a nudist; she knows I go to nudist venues; she knows I participate in nudist activities; she knows I belong to a local nudist group; I go to nudist activities and my wife knows where I am. I put married on this site because I am married and there is no reason to not say I am married. I am not here to make pretend I am something I am not, I am not here for hookups, or dating. I am here because I am a nudist, and this is a nudist site.
I am a married guy, keen nudist and naked most of the time. My wife is however brought up with Victorian values, correct me if I am wrong, and does not engage in any form of nudity. She tolerates me being nude and allows it until the kids visit when I put on some clothes. I do keep my private visits to nudist camps to myself so I dont cause suspicion or upset her but I enjoy as a single male visiting those nudist camps that accept us single males! There is a suspicion that we are going to perv on all the single women or females at the camp but nothing is further from my mind. I enjoy being nude and its relaxing and enjoyable to socialise with other nudists, nothing more nothing less but I am as a single male excluded from general mixed nudist camps.
or you could mind your own f******* business!Ivr, so far out of roughly 45 respondents to a thread that has been here for 3 months, there have been only 3 people who've taken offense to my husband's topic of discussion. I'm amused that all three were gay and single. Now I have to ask you, why doa fewgay, single men take such great offense at a topic that is directed specifically towards straight, married men?Jenp.s. Nice first post. Great way to introduce yourself to the folks around here.
I am a gay man. Regardless of the actual topic title. It should make no difference if married men put MALE ONLY on their profiles, enough explanations are given with regards to why the woman in their lives either doesn't want to participate in nudity, or if they are a home nudist only etc. There is NOTHING on this site that states the ladies in any mans life have to show their naked bodies to everyone here.
IF the lady in a mans life is fine with his nudity and spending time with others naked, where is there a problem ? People create far more than they need to on here. If your wife/GF etc, is happy with your nudity and being on a website for it, then that's fine.
One thing I do find on here is that I can look at a guys profile, more so with straight guys, is that they take offence and block me, just for looking or even complimenting them on their nudity (nothing sexual mentioned). They act all offended and assume I am speaking to them because I want more.
If people bother to read my profile properly, they will see that this is not the case. I don't care if you are married, the thing we have in common is that we are both nudists, not that he, as a man might bear the gift if a large penis or an average one. It's the old assumption that I might want to get to know that person to get something from them later down the line.
Why do people create problems that are not there in the first place ? There is no rule book on nudism/naturism, just common sense.
This is an old thread which questions if men should have a profile which includes the fact that they're married but does not include a couple profile with the Mrs. It was apparently posted before 2015 when US state gay marriage bans were lifted. It also questions if having a profile on this site without consensus/involvment of the wife could lead to a divorce. I'm glad that it's outdated and that times have changed. I understand that women would resent a patriarchal marriage where the husband is in control of and has oversight of all of his wife's activities and would insist on being a couple's profile in some group chat about the Oscars ceremony or something. The same applies to men who deserve autonomy. Couples thrive from having their own interests and social circles and it's up to the couple to communicate about this with one another.
If you're a married man, then it should state so on the profile. Just because a partner's none nudist, that's no reason for giving false information and pretending to be single.My wife has no interest in the nudist lifestyle, but I am married and thus state so on my profile. One should always try to be honest.
There is no Law or Rule on here that states any married man has to put "married" on their profile ! They are NOT being or giving false information if they state they are single male nudist, more so if their wife or partner is not into being naked as much as they are.
Who or what actually says they are "trying" to act like a single male ? That's assuming they have an ulterior motive, which NO ONE on here has the right to do.
At the end of the day it's a personal choice, plus if they have spoken to their partner and she is ok with him putting single male nudist on his profile, then where is the problem ? Oh, there isn't one !
None of you on here have the right to question anyone about their status as either a married or single male, there is no rule book that states this information.
My wife is not a nudist and in fact didn't know I was one for the longest time. Only when the kids grew up and went on their way, I opened up to her and it's taken years for her to barely tolerate me being naked at home. So I'm married but here as a single male. Once a year, we do have our separate vacations and my vacations are usually somewhere where I can be naked. This year she's gone overseas visiting her family and I'm just staying home alone naked, the best type of vacation.
I'm not married but I am in a longterm stable relationship with a wonderful lady who doesn't "get" my love of naturism and has no desire to participate, although she is happy for me to do so. Therefore, I don't include her on my profile.
What difference does it make if someone is single or is married but is coming here alone. Is there something wrong with being a single male or a married male who is here alone? There is way too much resentment against such males. Is this a male bashing site where males are some kind of evil species? The overwhelming majority of people on this site are males. The good males mostly talk with other good males as the females here will not speak with them at all. Other males may lurk in the background but that is their choice. Sadly this site has become a very non sociable site as most of the good members who did chat have left. What is left is really not worth coming to. Is it any wonder why so many of the good members have left for nonshy?
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