Nice place...but
I went to Spa Castle this past weekend. The place was nice and the locker room was nice. My main problem was the men in the locker room. I knew going to Spa Castle that I would have to be fully nude in the locker room, which is the main reason I went. Maybe I'm young and naive, but I didn't expect this to be a major gay cruising ground. I've never felt so uncomfortable. Every time I would make eye contact with this one old guy, he would grab his penis and make sexual gestures to me. I almost told him something, but didn't want to make a scene. There were others like this too. I was expecting that people would look at one other, that's human nature. But the extended eye contact and sexual gestures, would make any straight guy uncomfortable. Not to mention, I've noticed plenty of guys having their penises right up to the jets in the hot tub. I can only hope that these people have enough sense not to ejaculate into a hot tub that other people have to get into. Gross! Other than this it was really relaxing. But don't know if I will going back.
I've been to Spa Castle numerous times and I can say there is a lot of "cruising" that goes on there. And a majority of it is by married guys.
As for you being uncomfortable... You just had to look at the guy and say, "I'm not interested."
Once someone knows they have no chance of "hooking up" with you they will leave you alone. Don't let a few people ruin your new opportunity for enjoying nudism.
Cayden, I am really sorry this was your experience. Some days are worse than others, when it comes to the "cruising", but it can definitely ruin the relaxing vibe, when that happens. I've found that it helps when I'm there with a buddy, and we're engaging in conversation, and not really "available" for the unwanted advances. I'm old enough to be your dad, but it has happened to me there, too. I have actually very discreetly and nicely let guys know that I'm not interested before. Just so I could enjoy my time. I have also found that if I start a conversation with them, mention things that will get them into a "bro" vibe, they either engage in the conversation, or move on. I don't know if I'm making sense, but hope it helps.
I agree with you.... sorry for the delayed response.It's innately a strange place, because it's not somewhere I would go with a co-worker, and I don't have any other friends. So men go there alone. Men being the way they are, there's not much conversation among guys either. So it's a great place to go to relax, but a pretty lonely place to go to socialize.
That's actually why I joined this group, but there hasn't been any activity here either (not pointing fingers - I'm as much to blame as anyone.) If you would like to make a trip over, let me know. $17 Living Social deal right now.
David
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