Really doesn't matter, I like both ways as long as trimmed and kept up . Its like if needing a haircut, HAA, to me its a personnel preference.H
I'm mostly with you here. I feel that it's like a hairstyle. The "in" style right now is definitely shaved, but just like with hairstyles you can do what you feel and most are accepted. I'd say that most people expect anything on anyone other than a full untamed 6mo grown bush, but even though I might see it as slightly less sexy, I don't even mind that. On the flip side, I see a less-than-groomed female as one that is just more focused with her time on other areas in life and may be quite interesting to talk to.
I prefer a full bush on women.
With that being said I also think it's a personal preference. I don't shave or trim and like women who keep their pubic hair but understand that there are those who like to be smooth. Just do what is right for you and everything is fine.