I hope you have gleaned a lot of information from the above posts; they appear to answer most all of your questions. I do want to add one item to your list that may help from the comment, "I also don't understand why
would you want to "chat" nude? Could this be a sexual
fetish?" As a relatively new nudist, I have only been in chat for a few years. I would normally be nude while typing away, but occasionally not. During one post, a fellow nudist commented something along the lines of 'we all profess to be nudists by our participation on this site, but some here are always clothed'. That was enough for me, I enjoy being nude as much as practical and am nude pretty much 100% of the time on this site. It's just a personal thing, but to be true to the ideals a necessary one. I'm sure this is not practiced by all the folks here on this forum but do believe it is from the majority. I believe your husband may be one of the majority...I'd take it at face value and press on. I wish you well. John.