A Nudist's Diary
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Naturism and Sex
Return to DiscussionsThrough this discussion I would like to know what most of us feel.
Naturism is non sexual nudity in nature. In this case, sex is not a pre-condition. But what if sex comes as a natural expression of body and soul?
What can be more natural than sex in this universe?
Many a times...or most of the time, whenever i am alone and nude in nature...I feel an urge to explore my inner self and then sex becomes an obvious expression. I do masturbate. I had sex with consenting partner too.
Is it necessarily true if you are really emerged in nature and excited and your body responds and your mind becomes free...you feel like ejaculate...but the moment you engage in sex you become sexual and NOT NATURIST?
got it. So basically - sex should not disturb others and its an action to be held in private space.
Another thing...the nudity should not be an outcome of desire to have sex. If someone feels horny on a secluded beach and to release sexual tension s/he strips, then it can not be called naturism. because here, the person is nude for sex and puts on cover as sex is over.
But a true nudist, enjoys being nude irrespective of sexual desire. But in the nude stage, sex may come as a natural call of body/mind and the person can respond to it provided s/he is not intruding into other's privacy.
To my mind there are two sorts of nudist - swingers (as in TS) and naturists. The first may have sex as a driving force. The second enjoys naturism for the feeling of freedom it brings. Yes sex is a part of nearly everyone's life - their private life.
I just spent a day at the famous (infamous?) Cap d'Agde in France. The beach was packed with many hundreds of nudists. There was not one visible sign of sex, except for two unfortunate textile voyeur men playing with themselves on the edge.
@ollygrumpsHave you ever been nude in nature...completely by yourself and alone...and felt erotic and masturbated?
Yes I've been naked, alone in nature. I've found it uplifting, relaxing and enlivening butnot erotic. When I've "dared" to be naked where I should not (driving for example) I get a buzz out of it, but not a sexual one. Something else triggers my sex drive. I might be clothed or naked.
I agree to the fact that nudism and sex are 2 different things. I get hard even if i m not thinking about sex. Its just natural. Becoming hard doesnt always mean that the person wants to enjoy sex. Sometimes u get erect by thinking of the excitement of just being nude, that is wat happens to me. Its the excitement of pure nudism.
The basic issue has not been answered yet. Let us suppose there is either nobody else present or those present are not bothered either by public nudity or public sex. Now is sex in open place amidst nature when coming naturally is against naturism? The answer is tricky and can't be answered in 'yes' or 'no'. Rather I feel the answer would be such sex is natural but against the 'norms' of naturism. Now as it is natural, why the norms are against it? I think it is to emphasize the fact that nudism/naturism and sex are not equal, equivalent and equitable. It is also to point out to the non-nudist world the difference of nudity and sex and thus increase its acceptability or decrease resistance of non-nudist world against it. It is also to reduce confusion and keeping the proper differentiation of nudism and sex in practice.
I beg to disagree - it has been answered. Sex and naturism are two quite separate things. Occasionally I see a (usually clothed) man masturbating at the edge of a nudist beach. He is not a naturist. To my mind nether is anyone else who confuses nudism with sex. OK we can get sexual urges when we are naked, alone in nature or with other nudists. But that is not because we are naked.