Beautiful And Natural Bodies (body)
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Why the man can not show the erection in the web site but the woman can show any
Return to DiscussionsJeez, pretty harsh guys! Lighten up on him, I think he's serious, if a bit misguided. I've communicated with him privately.
Let's be more accepting - he hasn't done anything wrong.
Why the man can not show the erection in the web site but the woman can show any part of their body????Is not beautiful (erection)????
Again i find myself asking the question: Is this really a serious question in this day and age???
- To answer your question directly; simply because, in the first instance, an erection is a sign of sexual arousal. In the second instance, arousal in the public nudist domain is considered offensive. Why? because is (usually) signifies that a man with an erection has sex on his mind and thus is either seeking sex from another individual or is as another has pointed out, is an exhibitionist seeking self gratification. Both has no place in a nudist situation and this website is an extension to a nudist situation.
Just to remind you about your body - You have to remember that the penis has been primarily designed to do two things. One is to past waste, the other is to pass sperm. For the latter, the penis has to be erect to be able to get into the vagina in order for the sperm to have every chance of getting to that egg once it ejaculates. That is all there is too it. Now, in your wakened state, if you have an erection either on a beach, at a nudist resort or sitting in front of your computer either posting these questions or chatting, then your mind is finding something stimulating about whatever you are doing. This does not necessarily mean you wish to have a sexual release, but your mind has been sufficiently stimulated to start the process of having an erection. The longer you maintain that erection, the stronger the stimuli in whatever form you are getting it from. Naturally, if you are manually stimulating it (with your hand) well it will remain erect too, but again, what stimulation is making you wanting to maintain that.
In your sleeping state, your body will have several erections during the course of the night and these usually occur during REM sleep (rapid eye movement) where dreams are mostly likely to occur. Your erection is not because of your drams being sexual, but because the body is doing a self check, the blood surging through your body finding out any inconsistencies within it. And strangely enough too, when the body knows there is a issue, it actually tries and sends you message in your dreams which naturally are not picked up. If you want to know why you have an erection when you wake up, that is because you usally come out of sleep during the state of REM where, as pointed out above, is when your body will naturally have an erection.
Now this has nothing to do with your question, but if you understand how your mind and body works there would be no need for the question generally. And sure, (the body beautiful) is a common saying, whether the penis is erect or not, but that comes back to the eye of the beholder, not as a common acceptance.
...........boy are you in trouble , if he reads this you will find out he has blocked you also.Ruhl
Surely the answer is that the wider population confuses nudity with sex and traditional nudists vehemently defend the difference. An erection is seen as a sexual signal, just as vehemently rejected by these nudists. We cansee that from the strength and forcefulness of some of the arguments above.
I have seen "unfortunate reactions" amongst nudist men. Yes a "true nudist" will avoid showing an erection butit can happen in any full blooded male. So let's not castigate unfortunate men when this happens as long as they don't flaunt it or play with it. No doubt females get aroused too but their arousal is less clearly shown.
This site is towards the traditional end of nudism - that which avoids confusion with sex so strongly that it is almost puritanical. Of course real/true nudists enjoy sex just as much as anyone else, but without confusing sex with nudism. TrueSwingers, TN's sister site, is one of thegrowing number ofnudist sites which allows discussions on sexual matters. They also allow erections. Does that show maturity or a weakening of standards? We will all decide for ourselves.
I think it is wrong if a man show an erection on his page here. It is a choice he will do showing and that's wrong and there is no point doing that? I think everyone agree that it is natural for a man to be erect and it is nothing wrong or bad by itself. But when asking why a man can not show an erection...then the word *show* is the bad part. It is like running up on a stage to show an erection. Also, we all know that the bad part is not the erection itself...it is what is going on in thsi small part calling brain :-)
Well, woman cannot have any sign that they are sexually aroused. The erected penis means you are aroused, which is something this website feels is inappropriate. Not to mention, why do you feel the need to show an erected penis is beyond me.