Bromance SP
The relationship between two guys, heterosexual or a bit homo, it doesnt matter. It is a deep understanding of friendship for one another, that counts complicity and who has more affection, even if it manages jokes about being gay or not ... this is not the point. The most important thing is the support it offers to one another. Do you believe that? Did you have the chance to live like a...
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Allowing sexual release for straight and guy bromances?
Return to DiscussionsHope we can discuss this because I think it need to be addressed in bromances.
As a nudist the one thing that I need with a bro is to be able to hang naked together sometimes. Especially when I'm camping because I just have to enjoy being able to swim naked in the lake. I'm not trying to do anything sexual, but most guys I found that like that type of thing are gay. I also rather hang out with a gay guy that gets turned on occasionally than a straight guy that wouldn't even let me swim nude let alone join me.
So what's the best way to handle to if/when your gay bro needs to get off? You would be a bad bro if you expect him to hold it in. Especially if your camping for a week and your the one showing him something he likes.
So some kind of sexual release should be allowed. The straight guys in the bromance should understand that and find how far they are willing to let it go.
I think the line for me is just jacking off together. Maybe some light touching if you really want to touch it that bad. That's about it for me, but others can find there line. If you're cool with going farther like brojobs, that fine.
Because gay bros should be able to enjoy themselves. It would suck for gay bros that maybe just wanted to touch it once just to feel it (for example) and not be able to. I remember I once had a female friend that just let me see and feel her tit so I could "just get it out my system" because she knew I admired her tits. I was happy that she just gave me that much because I don't know many girls that would do that for there male friend.
So straight bros should understand and let their gay bros have even a bit of little fun.
I do not think that anything can easily fit into "pigeon holes". Those are man made constructs created to attempt to simplify and understand their world. Human curiosity and sexuality are as multifaceted as anything else. Be comfortable and open around your friends. If you are comfortable with a friend or friends masturbating around you or with you, then go for it. It doesn't mean anything more than you make it mean.....Do what feels right between yourself and your friends...all of your relationships. Personal relationships are each unique. Don't worry about what others may think or feel about relationships they are not part of. Male bonding is required for all of us. Each relationship may serve a unique purpose in your life. Be open and honest with those who are dear to you. Free yourself of any societal restrictions forced upon you. Live your life as you see fit, not as how others would have it. Stay well, enjoy any close friendships you find. Treasure them all for whatever they are.
Beautiful wisdom and insight, thank you bro!
Personal relationships are each unique. Don't worry about what others may think or feel about relationships they are not part of.
Showing affection to a person can take all forms. Helping them move. Complimenting their hair. Buying flowers. A hug. Sharing an old bottle of Scotch. A massage. An old-fashioned roll in the hay.
These are not the dividing lines between friendship and romance.
Lighten up, guys. Show affection. Be a friend.
PS: "allowing" a gay man to touch a straight man's penis is such a stereotypical power move it removes all desire to do so.