Bromance SP
The relationship between two guys, heterosexual or a bit homo, it doesnt matter. It is a deep understanding of friendship for one another, that counts complicity and who has more affection, even if it manages jokes about being gay or not ... this is not the point. The most important thing is the support it offers to one another. Do you believe that? Did you have the chance to live like a...
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Finding a bro
Return to DiscussionsIt's not as easy as we make it out to be. We need to find a bro we jive with, that we are on the same page, and be willing to be honest and true, ulterior motives if any, without judgement. I found one. We are both in similar situations. We hung out a few weeks back. It's envigorating learning about each other, and just talking and sharing. We sat legs entwined on the sofa. It was a bit experimental, and we talked about any fears or worries we have. We set ground rules too. We are hanging every couple of weeks for a few hours.
Not many lol
Except always to communicate and be respectful. Also no shame. We were both sporting boners most of the time. My body felt eletrified by his and by our conversation and the level of openness and understanding.
We are both pretty open and progressive, and conversation flows easily.
It's something new for both of us. When we chat by sms, to use his term, I give his brain a boner :)
It's nice to jive with someone on the same level. Not FWB, not boyfriends, not to replace what each of us have, but to not feel any inhibitions when we are together. We don't always have the same opinions but we are respect our differences.
This sounds amazing.
I am glad that you found something like this.
It is something to be able to find someone that, as was said in one of the replies, is not a replacement, but something that can add to your already rich life experience and growth as a man - I felt something similar this past weekend with someone that I met at a nude event - we had met online and exchanged messages and similarly sported erections while in each other presences but definitely will need to spend time to develop the friendship in the way that it supports us both - cant wait to see where it takes us - hope we all have that chance to have a bro!
I think this sounds like a great friendship. A healthy one. To have the clarity that you're not boyfriends, that your not FWBs, but that you have a level of openness and honesty with each other so that you can, in his words, "give his brain a boner", and that you can both sport erections when you're hanging out together, without having to worry about anything other than "honest, respectful communication": that's great. If you're lucky, you'll keep it up for a long time.
Er, the friendship, I mean.
Allen