Father And Son Nude Bonding
Fathers and Sons who have either been naked with each other or Fathers and/or Sons who have wanted to have that kind of relationship. This is a group for discussions concerning both.
- created by cwstache
My dad and me bonding
Return to DiscussionsMy father is not a nudist, but he has no problem being naked at home. Since I was little I was like that, then I had a time when I was more shy, but after a few years I was not ashamed to be naked in front of him either. Now, every time I visit him we can sometimes still see each other naked at home or in the shower.
That's how a dad/son relationship should be. If a dad can't explain all those things to his son and the son can't trust that he can to to his dad with questions about any of those things about how his body works and things he'll need to know about life and enjoying his life, who can he turn to? It's great to be that secure and close and safe to be able to be there and be a good dad in that role.
We weren't nudists per se, but we didn't have a/c in our house until I was 11 years old and we lived in Texas so sleeping nude on top of the covers with a box fan blowing on you was the norm. Saw my dad plenty of times and would often crawl up in the bed and cuddle (totally non sexual!). Just being naked with nothing between us and being held in his arms while we slept made me feel loved and accepted. As I got a little older my mother would start yelling at us so that eventually stopped. Still, after bailing hay or working on fences in the summer we'd go to this creek on our property that was partially dammed up so it made a decent sized pool off water that was about 4 feet deep. We'd go skinny dipping there a lot up through all my teen years. Laying in the sun, taking naps, talking about life and stuff and giving me the talk out there...running around acting like kids after we had a few beers--sometimes with boners and not caring.
I'd squat in the water and beat off, but he'd just laugh at me when he realized what I was doing and go back to swimming or laying on the ground by the water. Never joined me, but I'm not going to lie there's a part of me that wished he had. I enjoy the intimacy and connection you get when bating with a bud and always wanted to experience that with him, but that's ok because he was still amazing and open and honest about so much with me out there that I'm grateful.
I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
Good for you to appreciate the openness of you n your dads relationship. I think we Americans over think this and should just relax and do whats natural. I know I would have had a better teen experience if my dad had been more open n honest.
I appreciate your comment. I 100% agree.I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
The quote below looks fine on paper, as someone might've said a bunch of years ago (us now living in a mostly digital world). What's paper, say the grandchildren of the future?
I'm partly in agreement here, with a lot of ill-aimed denial about what difference does a little extra blood flow or hormonal secretion to certain specific places in the human body make, or maybe push us to act on - or not. The DNA spoken of here are at the heart of cells which have evolved enough over hundreds of thousands of generations - since we split from the other great apes - to give us a better sense of how to avoid faulty choices. We like to think we are the most mentally-evolved animals on Terra, a debatable topic, but just having a larger brain doesn't mean we automatically use it in our own best interest. One way in which we differ from our evolutionary brethren is in the healthy choices we make, and hopefully not heading in the direction some of us end up going, following their genitals into battle. No one here (?!) is suggesting that there's nothing wrong with fully-exploring every otherwise unanswered, often misdirected, animalistic urge.
As social nudists, our whole, physical self is on constant display. In most (but not all) naked situations, it is imperative for us to stay cognizant of what we're feeling for others around us, specifically around people who may spark a sexual flame but who are unavailable to us in that way, for whatever reason. Pretending the spark isn't lighting up is about as unwise as telling ourselves we are somehow superior to the other inhabitants of the animal kingdom. Behaving appropriately, as a conscientious person during moments of sexual stress, is in part, what proves us to be a good nudist, and on the other side of the socially-nude spectrum, answers whether a person would do better to stay home when the bus to the family nude resort is leaving the depot.
We are the bared caretakers of this world and for those with whom we choose to live and love. It is more about following the mentally-controlled path we have decided to travel instead of denying the - at times overpowering - physical reactions which present themselves, sometimes at the least opportune times. Clothed people have the 'luxury' of a mostly hidden physical reaction; we are out in the open and vulnerable to nature and natural responses, as it was meant to be. And with that freedom comes a heightened need for careful discernment of circumstances. Keep that towel handy, nudebies!!I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.