Father And Son Nude Bonding
Fathers and Sons who have either been naked with each other or Fathers and/or Sons who have wanted to have that kind of relationship. This is a group for discussions concerning both.
- created by cwstache
Our Totally Positive Experiences of Dad Son Nudism
Return to DiscussionsIt says a lot that every single post and reply in this group that was written by a man who EXPERIENCED father son naturism as a boy is 100% positive and speaks of joyful times and bonds between them and their dad, and sometimes with other dads and their sons or close male family friends. Similarly every dad who raised a nudist son is glad they did. So the REAL LIFE experience shared here by sons and dads within naturist families is proof of how wonderful family naturism is and how special the bonds between naturist dads and sons can be. So much closer than textile dads and sons. And isnt it beautiful for a boy to learn about being male and about his gender and body and life from his dad, naked and shame-free!
In my own case my dad wasnt a practising naturist in order to keep the peace with my religion-obsessed mother. But he often bathed me and when he saw that Id started sunbathing nude he totally approved. And that approval was for more than just me going nude, it was for everything I was and did. It was more than acceptance, he understood me, and he loved and celebrated me just as I was.
My only regret is that he didnt live to see me and his grandsons living and laughing naked and free. Hed have loved that. So if youre a man whos considering or dreaming of raising a naturist family - go for it. The reality is even better than the dream! And if youre one of the many wonderful men who hasnt had the good fortune to be raised by a nudist dad or to have nudist sons I hope youll get to connect with some dads and sons and share in some of their happy times. There is no healthier, happier life!
I feel a tinge of sadness reading this because neither as a son nor a father did I experience a totally positive dad/son nudism. In both cases, the mothers restricted nudity through their controlling behaviors. My dad pretty much relinquished his role as a father to my mom, so he could stay hands off and she could do it all. I needed him and missed him, even though he disappeared to another room rather than to another life.
My exwife controlled me through legal threats. For example, once she screamed vile things in my face in a public setting to provoke me to strike her, after which she could claim assault and keep me from my sons. I was smart enough to sit down on the cold ground instead, but always was concerned what my sons might tell her and kept our father/son nudism in that context. In other cases, I've heard women insinuate that all male nudity was somehow gay or unloyal, squashing the natural bond which males can build as men amongst men. That's my sadness and I own it.
Yet now my sons are 20 and 22 and I am proud of them. Even as they're struggling on their terms to find their way with their share of mistakes, I feel I've helped to keep them to stay grounded in the process. I can attribute much related to how I steered them to develope a healthy attitude towards nudity, which I believe is authenticity and integrity manifested. One day at time here, preferably without pants.