Father And Son Nude Bonding
Fathers and Sons who have either been naked with each other or Fathers and/or Sons who have wanted to have that kind of relationship. This is a group for discussions concerning both.
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My dad and me bonding
Return to DiscussionsMy father is not a nudist, but he has no problem being naked at home. Since I was little I was like that, then I had a time when I was more shy, but after a few years I was not ashamed to be naked in front of him either. Now, every time I visit him we can sometimes still see each other naked at home or in the shower.
I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
Good for you to appreciate the openness of you n your dads relationship. I think we Americans over think this and should just relax and do whats natural. I know I would have had a better teen experience if my dad had been more open n honest.
I appreciate your comment. I 100% agree.I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
The quote below looks fine on paper, as someone might've said a bunch of years ago (us now living in a mostly digital world). What's paper, say the grandchildren of the future?
I'm partly in agreement here, with a lot of ill-aimed denial about what difference does a little extra blood flow or hormonal secretion to certain specific places in the human body make, or maybe push us to act on - or not. The DNA spoken of here are at the heart of cells which have evolved enough over hundreds of thousands of generations - since we split from the other great apes - to give us a better sense of how to avoid faulty choices. We like to think we are the most mentally-evolved animals on Terra, a debatable topic, but just having a larger brain doesn't mean we automatically use it in our own best interest. One way in which we differ from our evolutionary brethren is in the healthy choices we make, and hopefully not heading in the direction some of us end up going, following their genitals into battle. No one here (?!) is suggesting that there's nothing wrong with fully-exploring every otherwise unanswered, often misdirected, animalistic urge.
As social nudists, our whole, physical self is on constant display. In most (but not all) naked situations, it is imperative for us to stay cognizant of what we're feeling for others around us, specifically around people who may spark a sexual flame but who are unavailable to us in that way, for whatever reason. Pretending the spark isn't lighting up is about as unwise as telling ourselves we are somehow superior to the other inhabitants of the animal kingdom. Behaving appropriately, as a conscientious person during moments of sexual stress, is in part, what proves us to be a good nudist, and on the other side of the socially-nude spectrum, answers whether a person would do better to stay home when the bus to the family nude resort is leaving the depot.
We are the bared caretakers of this world and for those with whom we choose to live and love. It is more about following the mentally-controlled path we have decided to travel instead of denying the - at times overpowering - physical reactions which present themselves, sometimes at the least opportune times. Clothed people have the 'luxury' of a mostly hidden physical reaction; we are out in the open and vulnerable to nature and natural responses, as it was meant to be. And with that freedom comes a heightened need for careful discernment of circumstances. Keep that towel handy, nudebies!!I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
My father was never shameful. He loved being naked in front of me. I remember the first moments we talked about hygiene in private parts. Any too?
My dad and I were always nude at home, no shame ever existed in our home. We had several nudist dad and sons friends who often joined us. We had a very large shower that had several shower heads. We always enjoyed soaping up each other making sure that we got all the nooks and crannies. Dads washed different nudist sons and sons washed different nudist dads. It really was a great way to enjoy nude bonding.
My father was never shameful. He loved being naked in front of me. I remember the first moments we talked about hygiene in private parts. Any too?My dad and I were always nude at home, no shame ever existed in our home. We had several nudist dad and sons friends who often joined us. We had a very large shower that had several shower heads. We always enjoyed soaping up each other making sure that we got all the nooks and crannies. Dads washed different nudist sons and sons washed different nudist dads. It really was a great way to enjoy nude bonding.
I've had a similar past. Growing up, being nude at home was considered very normal for the men in the family. But nobody knew about nudism being a thing until I grew up and found out about it much later. Dad and I were never shy around each other. We still have those moments of being naked together when I visit his place. Best way to get rid of barriers!