Grower And Insecurity
This group is for all those who are insecure about your penis.....and wanting to help.....help others as well as yourself.....please
- created by Trav55
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Return to DiscussionsYes I 100% feel insecure when walking around other nudist & Im completely flaccid. Its barely bigger than my thumb most of the time, & I see other guys walking around hanging & swinging. Ive never had any complaints & I grow to 7.5 & thick, so Im not insecure @ all when Im hard, but I would really prefer to stay fluffed up when other nudists are around.
Yes I 100% feel insecure when walking around other nudist & Im completely flaccid. Its barely bigger than my thumb most of the time, & I see other guys walking around hanging & swinging. Ive never had any complaints & I grow to 7.5 & thick, so Im not insecure @ all when Im hard, but I would really prefer to stay fluffed up when other nudists are around.
Does anyone else feel like in group nude situations you have to be half cocked to not be embarrassed? I feel so awkward when I'm 100%flaccid
I do understand how some guys are unhappy with their penis size when flaccid, but, when you are a grower, it doesn't really matter what size you are when limp, as you make up for it in the aroused state.
I have a young friend who told me that he was disappointed that he was not particularly hung when soft, but I told him the same thing as I say above, if you grow when erect, then you have nothing to worry about, it's just how nature made you.
Even men with a decent size flaccid, don't always grow to be hugely hung, but they are more than ample when in a state of arousal. The size of a mans penis when limp has no bearing on whether they are more or less masculine than the next guy, love yourself as you are guys.
When I work out it seems my penis gets to be at its smallest, sometimes even smaller that after a cold swim. When I would have a hard workout, it's like the blood in my body is going to my muscles, not enough for the penis too or something. After a hard ride in compression shorts in even the hottest, sweatiest workouts, when I take off my compression shorts you can feel the heat from my body radiating, but my penis is very small and cold...sometime so small it gets caught in my pubes. Try being cool undressing in the locker rooms when I need to actually spend time untangling my shrunken penis from my sweaty pubes. I know at times when others were around seeing me trying to get things sorted may have been embarrassing knowing others were watching, probably trying to figure out what was going on, but it just struck me as one of those moments I couldn't help laughing and calling more attention to it. I could be the only person with this experience in the world, but I know that every male, regardless of age or size could relate to the shock of the shriveled penis. It happens to everyone.
Guys, they are penises. They tend to be very changeable. Perhaps focusing more on function than appearance could help even the smallest of my brothers find peace and feel more confident with themselves. Possibly not the best suggestion for those of us struggling with ED concerns....although that is far more common than most think. We should keep opening up to each other and sharing our insecurities, thoughts, views..strengthen the brother bonds society seems to have eroded. We have a lot more in common with each other than many may expect. Struggles with body image tends to be a Universal issue. Even those of us with "fantastic" bodies struggle with insecurities and body image of some sort. No need to feel shame or hate for the bodies we are in. We have to live in them no matter how we feel about them. There is no point in focusing so much on what we don't like about our bodies. We need to realize it is far more important that others often hold more favorable opinions about our appearances than we may every have. Those will be where we will find our dating pools.
Love yourself and love each other! We are all just men and we need each other! Stay well all! NAked hugs!