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Is any one bothered about being a grower rather than a shower?
Return to DiscussionsTo be honest, there are a couple things that bother me about being a "grower."
1) the cock is meant to be seen, and even when flaccid i would like to be able to "make a good impression." Let's face it, men do check each other out. Oh well, what can we do?
2) when I wear boxers, it would be nice if the flaccid cock would snake down the leg a bit; but instead it tends to poke through the fly. Argh! So I have stopped wearing boxers and switched to boxer briefs (that is, when I'm wearing anything at all.)
It used to really bother me, as most people who saw it would see it in its shrunken state. In my case it certainly doesn't grow loads but enough, it's just when it's at it's smallest I look very out of proportion as a tall guy!
Doesn't bother me these days, plenty of years as a nudist and letting it hang (or poke) out in locker rooms and team showers means I don't feel the shame I used to, I would hope most guys know that soft size isn't a great indication, and if seeing my shriveled little thing makes them feel better about themselves then that's great.