Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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What is the ultimate activity whilst male bonding?
Return to DiscussionsEveryone seems to skirt round the topic, but I think the ultimate activity that really bonds people together is the curiosity about what the other guy does with his penis when its aroused. Is there anything wrong about a couple of guys masturbating in each others presence?
I feel that society so influenced our thinking in years past that the thought of two guys masturbating was "horror horror" meant they were definitely gay. But fortunately cultures are changing. I like the comment "agree that if naked men get together and spend time sharing as only sharing can be done when there are no barriers of clothing, and at some point in time do feel comfortable enough with each other that masturbating simply becomes an extension of the bonding process, then why not??" I now believe it I the circumstances and like the earlier comment said if is simply coming together solely for that purpose it is an orgy. But if it is simply a consequence of the environment and comfort level then why now. It has taken ne time to work through the difference but now feel we need to be more open to our environment and feelings and similarly those of others with whom we share so many more intimate aspects.
I feel that society so influenced our thinking in years past that the thought of two guys masturbating was "horror horror" meant they were definitely gay. But fortunately cultures are changing. I like the comment "agree that if naked men get together and spend time sharing as only sharing can be done when there are no barriers of clothing, and at some point in time do feel comfortable enough with each other that masturbating simply becomes an extension of the bonding process, then why not??" I now believe it I the circumstances and like the earlier comment said if is simply coming together solely for that purpose it is an orgy. But if it is simply a consequence of the environment and comfort level then why now. It has taken ne time to work through the difference but now feel we need to be more open to our environment and feelings and similarly those of others with whom we share so many more intimate aspects.
I feel that society so influenced our thinking in years past that the thought of two guys masturbating was "horror horror" meant they were definitely gay. But fortunately cultures are changing. I like the comment "agree that if naked men get together and spend time sharing as only sharing can be done when there are no barriers of clothing, and at some point in time do feel comfortable enough with each other that masturbating simply becomes an extension of the bonding process, then why not??" I now believe it I the circumstances and like the earlier comment said if is simply coming together solely for that purpose it is an orgy. But if it is simply a consequence of the environment and comfort level then why now. It has taken ne time to work through the difference but now feel we need to be more open to our environment and feelings and similarly those of others with whom we share so many more intimate aspects.
I find having a naked massage session with another guy or guys a great way of bonding, and also nude wrestling both activitiescan make you feel very close to one another , and can beincredibly intimate, without being sexual , I would also agreethat just hanging out naked having a coffee or a beer andhanging out works too , the comments about masturbationin front of each other is definitely a bonding activity
Under normal circumstances I would imagin the ultimate male bonding experiance to be watching a Steelers game and some beers :)But chilling with a friend nude and your dick randomly getting hard, 90% of the time I would just ignor it and it would eventually go away. Only like 2 or 3 times though i was hangin out with a friend and got hard, and we just stroked one out. A stroke between friends isnt anything to make a big deal out of.
Nothing wrong with stroking with a friend! We all do it, why not share it?
Ive always enjoyed stroking with friends. What sucks sometimes is finding out which ones will be ok with it. Some people are so prude its rediculous..
While I agree with a lot of what's being said on both sides of stroking with a buddy, I tend to lean more towards what happens afterwards. A wank is just a wank, and by any other name, it's still a wank. The time before, is built up towards are you going to wank or not, it's the quiet time afterwards when one is open and able to possibly bond. Just my two cents...
I enjoy camping with my friends.Involving helpingeach other setup camp, cook and conversation.Introducingan activity to your buds; boating, swimming, fishing, hiking and games. Coming together in natureto form a small community is wonderful.