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Roommates
Return to DiscussionsDo any guys out there have or have had roommates that you are totally comfortable being yourself around? From being nude , to leaving the bathroom door open while you do your business , to continuing to jack off even if they walk in on you, or just start jacking if the mood hits you while watching tv together?
I have had a couple of roomies who i have been comfortable nude around, mostly in college. One long time one who rarely saw me in the buff, one traveling one who i inspired him to go nude in the room, and one in my home who was totally uncomfortable with me nude around him, he moved after 6 weeks of me putting up with his dozens of quirks. But i have never had one who I acted totally like i do when home alone.
Just curious to see what other guys have experienced
The only true roommate I ever had was in a dorm as a freshman in college. We hared a room with 2 beds and a bathroom. We were randomly assigned a room together so we didn't know each other. On the first day I told him I slept naked and preferred to be naked when hanging out in the room so I hoped he was cool with it. I think the way I presented it he was afraid to say no. I never closed the bathroom door and pretty much was naked when the hall door was closed. I woke up with boner all the time (of course, I was 18 years old!). I never masturbated directly in front of him but I did in the shower so if he came in the bathroom to use the sink or toilet, he saw me. Occasionally I would jerk off at night in bed. Sometimes he would have friends over to watch TV and I'd get out of the shower and dry off in front of them and just sit on my bed naked, often hard. I think he must have warned them because they never really said anything. We really didn't have much in common and never did anything together. He would close the bathroom door when he did his "business" but if he was in the shower or brushing his teeth, I'd still walk in and do what I needed to do. Overall he was totally cool with my lifestyle but with the exception of him taking a shower, he was never without his white briefs.
Do any guys out there have or have had roommates that you are totally comfortable being yourself around? From being nude , to leaving the bathroom door open while you do your business , to continuing to jack off even if they walk in on you, or just start jacking if the mood hits you while watching tv together? I have had a couple of roomies who i have been comfortable nude around, mostly in college. One long time one who rarely saw me in the buff, one traveling one who i inspired him to go nude in the room, and one in my home who was totally uncomfortable with me nude around him, he moved after 6 weeks of me putting up with his dozens of quirks. But i have never had one who I acted totally like i do when home alone. Just curious to see what other guys have experienced
I used to rent out a room in my flat. Advertised that I was a nudist. One roommate was there a few nights a week. I would be naked and he was ok with it. He was turned on, and always wanted to have sex. I was not being sexual, just naked at home and comfortable. I would sometimes walk with an erection which send a different message to his brain, so there was a bit of tension there, but bathroom door open, pretty relaxed otherwise. My house my rules. He was not always comfortable naked. I was ok with that.
i had two roommates both moved out about a month after moving in. one of them we would get nude together and jerk off together. It is when the lights went out and i reached for his tool, he let me take care of him and the next day he moved out.
My roommate in my senior year of college was the one who got me into nudism. He never said anything about being a nudist, he just would walk around nude all the time. Walk to the shower nude. Lounge around studying nude. Sleeping nude. I didn't care and it took me about 2 weeks to join him.
I've never had a roommate that has been comfortable masturbating with me. I loved with three other guys in my 20's, and we had few inhibitions, often saw each other naked walking to or from the bathroom, occasionally seeing an erection, but never got that comfortable.
In my 20's I had a couple of roommates in succession who were completely comfortable naked - although they made less of a point of it that I did - in an apartment with a waterbed in the front room and a conventional bed and bedroom. We didn't really claim separate spaces, just slept wherever seemed good, and often shared one of the beds. There was never any sexual activity between us; one of the roomies made a practice of jerking off before going out on a date - to slow himself down later - which subject arose by way of explaining the accumulation of cum rags by the bed. He seemed to have no worry about being seen, nor any interest in being seen, but would just sort if idle along under the covers while I was in the room.
Later I had a two-bedroom / one-bath share in San Francisco, where there was a certain amount of unpredictability in who might show up at the breakfast table, but always a generous display of morning wood on the part of those bearing such organs, the conditions of which would pretty well indicate how things had gone in the bedrooms, or were about to.