Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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Naked Erections .
Return to DiscussionsI think ALL MEN , Whether str8 , bi , gay OR CURIOS LOVE THEIR STIFF COCKS AND MANY SHOW IT OFF TOO . IT just depends whose company they are in and how HORNY AND What their Upbringing is . I Belive that ALL Dads must raise their sons With AN OPEN MIND and teach theirs sons not to BE ASHAMED Of THEIR MANHOOD AN Be Proud of it . MY DAD SLEPT NAKED MANY TIMES AND I saw his Boner too but was Never ashamed to see it . Also ev ery males gets it at some time or another so why be ashamed of their Boner. When I was younger I use to get them all the time without any reason even when I was in Secondary school and I was never Ashamed of it .I was 16byrs old when I was in School in my tenth grade.
Good one ' nudeskyman'. I understand what you mean, it would have been like that for me had it not been for two Uncles.
I am sure a man like you could find a buddy and go camping together and relax, gain confidence and personal pride and regain your erections.
I am 62 and love waking up with my friend hard. A great way to start the day positively. I would hope that most men I chat to every morning would have had the same experience.
Just get over the guilt and let it happen, another hand often helps as well
Good Luck
I'mnot sure how all of you feel about this, I realise that some of you have apprehensions... but personally, I enjoy the erectionsthat I can achieve. There' s got to be some kind of chemistry involved because it doesn't matter if there is someone else involved or not; an erection feels good. Whether there is chemistry involved or it's all in my head :-) it makes me feel good. And because it's not a guaranteed thing, it especially feels good when it happens. It's not that I'm just happy it happened, there's a feeling deep inside, that makes me a 'happy camper'. If anyone can explainit to me, I'd love to hear about it; I am all about why and how; like a 3-year-old. I have to know how and why things work. So why do I get this feeling inside me that is more than ' hey, it still works'? It's actually an erotic feeling, and I can't understand or explain it, I wish I could: because if I can't understand it or explane it, it didn't happen. And that freaks me out.I realise that I sound 'spaced out', but these are real questions that maybe no one else has the guts to ask. I've had medical training, but I still don't know the answer to this.
Could not agree more ntx . There is no explanation, erections happen the same as we eat and drink , just part of nature, we are only a type of animal. pretty low unintelligent type as well.
I dont want to be blunt but those who have to find a towel to cover up should go to a Dr for treatment so their sons don't have the same problem
Those who hide behind trees to conceal an erection probably should be caught and castrated so that they don't have sons..
I am a down to earth farmer so I live and work close to nature and naturally socialise with like minded people, for no other reason that we share a common industry. Here the footballs clubs still have half a dozen to a shower , the sports complex has cubicles but no screen or curtain and clothes hooks are on the opposite wall.
Educate your sons or grandsons like one previous contributor said and let them have natural lives, not a distorted view of the ' bible belt ' mentality and cover up.
It is a great day here and I am erect, naturally being Homo Sapien Erectus
Yes Solitary, erections should feel erotic, and put you on a high, they are the height of a man's well being. Find some one to share it with or if naked have a wrestle, be part of the great animal kingdom. Be the Alpha Male.
When you get one show every one, even if it is only a bulge in your jocks. Enlighten their dull day, they will probably get one as well, make it a fashion.
Can I add my 2 cents? Spontaneous erections are ok with me to be
seen in a locker room, shower, or resort. I do object to men who
fiddle and play with it in that setting. I also think you need to
keep the erection down if you immediately start dripping precum. I
like looking at precum, In porn, or with a friend, but not in
public. To me, it is a sign of high sexual arousal, not just a
boner. Your thoughts!
I also think you need tokeep the erection down if you immediately start dripping precum. Ilike looking at precum, In porn, or with a friend, but not inpublic. To me, it is a sign of high sexual arousal, not just aboner. Your thoughts!
Dripping precum is not always a sign of sexual arousal. Some guys, including myself are very heavy precummers. I can even leak when not erect. While sexual arousal means precum (in guys who produce it), the opposite is not always true. Precum does not always mean sexual arousal.
To Peter-Z, We had a forum topic on precum a while back and the guys overwhelmingly chimed in that precum was not always associated with sexual arousal. I can leak lots when my senses are expansive but not feeling sexual at all (eg finally naked in a beautiful natural setting). Many posters concurred. I would not be inclined to leave a group of friends over that, it is just a body reaction to feeling great. But I do agree that stimulating yourself to achieve an erection is bad manners in a strictly social nude setting (just as playing pocket pool at a non-nude strictly social setting).
I think it's healthy to see an erection, and to know that it's entirely natural and normal to get them randomly without sexual stimulation. So many young people have a negative idea of what is normal when all they see is well endowed porn stars, seeing the "average joe" is probably a good thing.
I do get precum from time to time without any obvious sexual stimulation. Just getting naked and enjoying the sunshine on my body can give me some.
To Peter-Z, We had a forum topic on precum a while back and the guys overwhelmingly chimed in that precum was not always associated with sexual arousal. I can leak lots when my senses are expansive but not feeling sexual at all (eg finally naked in a beautiful natural setting). Many posters concurred. I would not be inclined to leave a group of friends over that, it is just a body reaction to feeling great. But I do agree that stimulating yourself to achieve an erection is bad manners in a strictly social nude setting (just as playing pocket pool at a non-nude strictly social setting).
Thanks, I'll search that pre-cum issue.