Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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Cuddling
Return to DiscussionsAnyone into cuddling up with a bud while watching tv or even while having a sleep over? I'm not talking about cuddling up to let it lead to hooking up, but cuddling as another way to show affection and bond with our close friends. I like being able to have that physical contact as well as be totally relaxed and comfortable with a buddy or more just hanging out. Anyone else feel the same or engage in the same behavior without sexuality being an issue?
Instead of cuddling, a close friend used to let me hold his penis while watching TV together. He usually didn't get very hard but semi and he enjoyed it. I find it very comforting like holding a security blanket. I miss those days.
I've already told a few guys about this. It really is comforting and nice! I met someone a long time ago who suggested this while we were going to bed after a nice, nude day in Palm Springs, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Later on, I met another guy who enjoyed the same thing basically except holding each other's balls instead. I also really enjoy cuddling while hanging onto or rubbing my friend's nearest leg, resting the length of my arm along his leg. Very, very nice, just as any other kind of cuddling or holding is (especially nude). It's just so relaxing and intimate! I tend to stay away from guys who say they don't cuddle, with the exception of one non-nude straight bud, and that's it.
Are there any "straight" men who like to cuddle? I love to myself, but if I spoon I get hard, and then I leak, then it can lead to other stuff, but never cuddle intentionally leading to sex.
Anyone into cuddling up with a bud while watching tv or even while having a sleep over? I'm not talking about cuddling up to let it lead to hooking up, but cuddling as another way to show affection and bond with our close friends. I like being able to have that physical contact as well as be totally relaxed and comfortable with a buddy or more just hanging out. Anyone else feel the same or engage in the same behavior without sexuality being an issue?
I have a Straight friend that I cuddle with when we can get together. We always get semi hard, and he leaks a lot, but it is non sexual.We just enjoy lay in each others arms and enjoying the feel of the others body tight against the other, very intimate in a non sexual way.
i have had several straight buddies, over the years, that enjoyed cuddling naked. it never led to anything sexual, it was just two men who were comfortable being naked together, and enjoyed the touch of a close friend. as each buddy got married, our naked times grew to an end, sadly, but i still remain so close with each of them, because of our times together.
i currently have one friend who is a younger buddy that i met while playing in a band with him. we had a pretty instant connection, and after a girl had broken his heart, he ended up literally crying on my shoulder after one of our sets. i invited him to come over to swim and drink some whiskey - drown his sorrows. we had never discussed nudity - we had only known each other for a couple of weeks. he walked through the front door, straight out the back door to the pool, and within 60 seconds was standing naked in my backyard. (and just to give you the visual - really cute guy, with a blonde mohawk. he is about 5'9", 185lbs of pure muscle. shaved CLEAN, head to toe, with a pretty impressive package - huge balls, btw, and the ass of a soccer player) i knew there was a reason we got along so well! lol. so, after an afternoon of skinnydipping, and floating naked together on my double raft, our closeness increased pretty quickly. we weren't shy about touching, or checking each other out, as we floated the afternoon away. i "had" to apply sunscreen to his very pale, Nordic skin several times that afternoon.
as evening came on (and the mosquitoes came out), we headed in to watch a movie. i laid out my towel in the corner of the sectional, with my legs across one side of the couch, while he got a fresh whiskey. i fully expected him to grab one of the chairs, or take the other end of the sectional. nope! he plops down right next to me, and leans his back against my side, with his legs headed down the other side of the couch. as the movie begins, he starts to kind of snuggle in, so i put my arm around him, and rest it on the top of his stomach, to see just how comfortable he really was with the naked snuggle. he just snuggled in and sighed. as the movie continued (casino royale, btw) i began lightly stroking his pecs and stomach, and he again started to squirm around and snuggle in. a little more time passes, and he gets up to pee. i figured snuggle time was over, but no, he comes back, does a little "whiggle dance" (just to make me laugh), and lays down on the couch, with his head in my lap! of course i have no choice but to place my hand on his stomach, now! i mean, it's right there! so, i again stroke his chest and stomach, this time letting my hand move down toward his crotch, and play with his belly button. he was enjoying it, so i continued on down to his thighs, lightly brushing along his dick and balls on the way up and down. he got a little chubby, as i was caressing him, but never got hard. he rolled over a bit, on his side, so i could do the back of his legs, and that fine ass, just letting my hands fall lightly on his skin. i'd make goose bumps come up, and then go back over them with a heavier hand to calm them down. he was loving it! finally, i went in for the full-on snuggle. at this point, i figured, why not? so i just told him "it's snuggle time". he took his head from my lap, i got up, took the back pillow off the couch, and laid down behind him. i "tucked", at first, so he didn't have my dick up against him, and wrapped my arm around him. he grabbed my hand and pulled it up to his chest, holding it for awhile, and i snuggled in and smelled his hair. he was asleep within 10 minutes, and we laid like that for a couple of hours.
when he finally awoke, he rolled over on his back, and rubbed his eyes. at this point i felt his boner had come against my arm. he apologize, but i told him no worries. he was too tired and drunk to drive, so i told him he was staying - no arguments. i told him i'd bring him a blanket for the couch, if he wanted, but he said he wanted to go to my room and fall asleep to a movie in bed. i didn't argue. i had to smile, as he got up from the couch with a semi-woody, and wandered out to the kitchen for a glass of water. he made no effort, whatsoever, to hide that bone, and it made me happy to see just how comfortable he was with me. we got in bed, and he spooned me, as we fell asleep to "the hangover". the perfect night with a straight buddy. since then, we have had many more naked times together, including massages, skinnydipping, and lots of snuggling, but sadly his travel for work makes it difficult to get together often.